To make a longstory short. There was a woman with a nice body but a not so nice face. She looked much older than her age. She was dating an abusive man who was a criminal. She recently aborted his child. She dresses provocatively and excercised often. Almost like an obssession. i could neverstand still, i suspected drug use? She also looks a little anorexic. I liked her and tried t obe a good guy to her. I listened to her hours and hours of hurt stories about her life. One day her friend met me and everything changed. She started t otreat me differently. I felt very self concious about how she treated me. I told her about it and it and she didnt care. She would often flirt with me sexually. Like lifting her leg up in a restaurant. Yet she told me that she didn’t want to go with me as a bf or anything. She treated me like someone odd and dumped her problems on me. ihelped her a lot but she took me for granted. I tried to explain to her how I felt and how few people would sit and listen to her problems and genuinely care. She still didnt care and had no patience for my feelings. later we had an argumaent. She tried t osay that I was the same as her physically abusive ex bf, who she was still seeing I later learned. As she expressedthat he “gives her love”. We had an exchange of words and I said some really mean thing out of anger to her. but I just got tired of how she treated me. I have no one in my life and it was hard for me to be flirted like that by a woman who had no interest in me. it made me sad, angry and very down on myslef. I felt ugly because she had a so called beautiful body, which peopel commented on all of the time. i recently tried to say sorry to her for the mean things I said out of anger. But she doesnt talk to me any more. She said some really horrible things to me and that is why I let loose. Though I never cursed her, I just told her how I felt. But she made it out like I am the wrost man ever. Even though her ex bf is a criminal, a liar, illiterate and an illegal alien.
And he used all of her money and that of her family. But she still ‘loves’ him. She looks old but thinks she is the most beautiful woman. it makes me sad sometimes but I dont know if i am wrong and just cant see that she was not worth me. or did I lose out on a woman I could have built something with?

I’ve been hearing the joke for some time and I have NO idea what it means, I mean - I know about Rene Descartes but apparently not enough because I can’t figure it out for the life of me.

:Descartes was at a restaurant and the waiter asked “would you like the soup?” Descartes took a moment and said “I think not,” and promptly disappeared.:
I knew there was something minor I was missing, the sad part is once I read your responses I started laughing because I instantly understood it. Very late reaction for sure. Thanks very much guys.

Alright so im 20 years old, and every thursdays me and my family go to this restaurant to see a car show. There is a hostess their that I always thought was so beautiful. She seems so humble and joyful all the time and always took good care of us. Im pretty sure that she is single too. Anways, I was never able to talk to her because of how busy she looked. Last thursday was the last car show so finally I got the guts to give her a Little note stating that I think she is very pretty and maybe we can be friends and hang sometime with my number at the bottom. She smiled and told me thank you. Every thing seemed so great. for the next 3 days, I looked at my phone like every 10 minutes to see if she called or texted me… and she never did. SInce then, ive felt so sad. I always think of her cute smiles and end up sighing. This is so strange to me because I dont even really know the girl and im acting like I just broke up with her after a 10 year relationship. I just moved here to San Diego from Hawaii and seen a lot f good looking girls, but she is the first girl that caught my eye since I got here… My friends just keep telling me to get other girls..but its like I dont want them. sigh idk I just wanted to share it with some people and ask what they think about this.

I got really wasted last night and me and his best friend started arguing but it was almost in a joking manner. His best friend then said something about me that was really embarassing. It was something that I told my boyfriend that no one should have known. So I broke up with him in an extremely intoxicated state. Then they got into the car, my bf asked if I needed I ride home but I refused it so left me at the restaurant at 3 in the morning by myself. The fact that he told his bff my embarassing secret is forgivable but the fact that he left me at tge restaurant is inexcusable granted I told him to leave but I was soooooooo inebriated. Now I don’t know what to do, he’s such an amazing great guy and an incredible boyfriend and my heart hurts. So do I just say forget it or do I try to forgive him and make it work? Btw he is really angry at me. I just don’t want us to get back together for us to just break up again. Please help

well me and my girlfriend love each other a whole lot and we were hanging out almost everyday, but lately she has been too busy to come and c me or meet me somewhere to hang, u see she has 3 jobs she does: an employee at a restaurant, and shelter assistant, and a nanny, i didn’t really have a draining feeling until today, when she told me last night that she would come visit me at my work, and so today i waited and waited, texted asking asking when she was gonna get here, she said she didint know, then aroun 8:30 (30 minutes before we closed) i ask if she was coming, she said she couldn’t. I ask why, she said because she is watching her sister, she said she would bring her sister with her, but her mom said no for some reason. I asked why didnt u tell me earlier? She fel bad and said I’m really sorry, but i said it was ok, shit happens, but then i made her feel like shit, she said, and i never meant to make her feel that way, so i asked her if there was anyway that i could see her tomorrow because when Thursday comes by, we are going to two different schools which mean that we’ll be even more separated, and she saids, “idk”. I really do love her and I know she loves me, but now i feel bad because everytime i ask her if she wants to hang out, she feels exhausted from work and wants to sleep, or something else like that, and i keep egging her on until she gets really sad, or stressed. I don’t mean to i jus want to spend time with her is all, and now i feel like shit, can anyone help me figure out what i need to do?

My bofriend and I have been together only 3 months…
It is pretty new and fresh relationship…

However I hate myself thinking this stupid thing….

Everytime he and I go to a restaurant, or the beach, he walks ahead of me…
I walk way behind of him….

One day, I asked him why he walked so fast and he asked me why I walked so slow…
I had no idea how to say….
So, I have tried my best to walk fast….but I still can;t walk with him…

That makes me so sad, when I see other couples holding their hands and walking together ….

Please don;t say that he is not my bf…
He is my bf!!!

What should I do?…..
I am still waiting until he holds my hand when we walk together…

If I tell him how I feel, he might stat to hold my hand…but I might feel uncomfortable because it is not from the bottom of his heart….

I am so sad everytime we go out…..I don;t want to walk by myself……..I don;t want to feel lonely…

What should I do?

My bofriend and I have been together only 3 months…
It is pretty new and fresh relationship…

However I hate myself thinking this stupid thing….

Everytime he and I go to a restaurant, or the beach, he walks ahead of me…
I walk way behind of him….

One day, I asked him why he walked so fast and he asked me why I walked so slow…
I had no idea how to say….
So, I have tried my best to walk fast….but I still can;t walk with him…

That makes me so sad, when I see other couples holding their hands and walking together ….

Please don;t say that he is not my bf…
He is my bf!!!

What should I do?…..
I am still waiting until he holds my hand when we walk together…

If I tell him how I feel, he might stat to hold my hand…but I might feel uncomfortable because it is not from the bottom of his heart….

I am so sad everytime we go out…..I don;t want to walk by myself……..I don;t want to feel lonely…

What should I do?

my husband owns a restaurant and now business are not going well, people that they use to come there now they don’t, my husband feels very bad because the place is the only way to make money.
he wants to make things but because he doesn’t afford it he just postpone, i started to feel the pressure, why some people have everything and others have to work hard and not to have the necessary income?Also there is one girl who I really don’t like because i can sense that she is vicious, the think that i don’t understand she has many friends(some of my husband customers), how can they hand out with her?with us (me and my friends) she is very bad and self seeker and with other people she is totally different, the bad thing is that i like ti hang out with her company but they stop talking me for a reason that i don;t understand..and she all the time makes show-off in face book, she makes feel very negative but i feel very sad when people like her and they don’t understand how fake she is

I feel really sad lately because of something that is turning sour. It’s all due to my siblings living far away while I’m here taking care of my dad. I’m the youngest one of the family and the most attached to my parents. Anyway, I’ve always considered myself close to my siblings until recently. I’m feeling as though we’re drifting apart. This is really bothering me and I can’t talk to them about it because they’d only find an excuse and brush it off. When they come to visit, they’ll spend all their time with dad because they feel guilty living so far away. Then I’m being ignored and the focus is only on him. I expressed that but they continue to say that they must be with dad. Not only that but our conversations are now superficial and empty. My sister acts independent and distant. When we get together now (like tonight, at the restaurant), I could feel the tension in the air. Things just aren’t like they used to be and it hurts me badly. I don’t know if I’m overreacting. Even when my sister said goodbye, it was colder. I’m in tears right now just thinking about this whole thing. I see my dad every single night of the year at the nursing home and I guess they feel guilty because they’re not here and there’s stress everywhere. Help!

They’re all married except me and I find that the hubby and wife of my siblings have transformed them into different people. My in-laws are very strong in character and have a lot of influence on my siblings, so that doesn’t help.

i seriously need help i have a puppy thats around 7 months and my dad feed him food from a restaurant and every since he havent been eating anything , he is sad looking , and barly wants to walk can someone please give me a 24 hr hotline where i can call at and recieve some help or and advice