girls say im good-looking and wonder why ive never had a girlfriend or have had sex yet? they tell me im hot and attractive and that its wierd for me not to be dating. my step-mom isnt much older than me. even her young friends hit on me. me im just not ready for girls? does this make me a bad person? people seem to diss me all the time about this. the truth is, i just really dont want to have sex with girls right now. i adore women. i just want to be their slaves. like if i had a girlfriend, i would be overly too nice to her. like buy her flowers. jewelry. take her out to fancy restaurants. tell her she’s the most beautiful woman in the world every chance i get. um i was actually thinking about saving myself for marriage. to let it be with my wife. so it will be more special. ……………………………………. any ideas? im comfused? about to go to college too. thats not gonna make my situation easier. peace.

My little guy is 16 weeks old and he has never been left at a babysitter. We’ve never felt the need for one. And personally, I think I might go a little crazy with him under someone else’s care. I admit, there are occasions where it would go a lot smoother if we could do it with out having to stop and tend to a crying baby at the most inconvenient times, but we do what we need to do at the appropriate times-even if it involves one parent holding and rocking the baby while the other one eats at the restaurant on “date night”, oh well. One of my husband’s friends told him that we need to let our son get babysat from time to time so he’d be more rounded socially or something like that. And that he’s already bonded to us enough, he needs to experience more people. Huh? Now that I don’t get. Oh well, so anyways-how old was your baby when you first used a babysitter? What do you think about using a babysitter so the parents could eat dinner in peace (I don’t know if I could enjoy dinner without our son though)?

Romantic Restaurants in Mumbai

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Theres this problem that we have as a couple in south mumbai, we cant never decide on a place to go out and eat which happens about twice a week. I was looking for a list of romantic restaurants in Mumbai may it be in town or the suburbs where i can take her which has a great ambience,good location if theres is and some amount of peace and privacy. we always land up going to places that are noisy with college kids or family-wallas that really spoil the moment.
anybody has any suggestions? the restaurants may be cheap or expensive?.

Im just curios to see how others read into this, cause I had quite a disagreement with some people, its really nothing but its been on my mind to long and wanted to see what others thought.

I happened to pass by this restaurant where this girl i’ve had some history with works, right when I passed, I could see she noticed me, got nervous turned around a little into the restaurant. I coincidentally had a meeting at the same place later that night. She saw me walk passed her again and I went to a back table on the other side of where she was. Towards the end of the night I saw her stand at the opposite end of where I was sitting on her cellphone, for a little bit, then she left.

Was she was nervous or shocked the first time I saw here, and then that night trying to get my attention?

What do you think?

Peace

Do people in China eat their take out in containers similar to those given at Chinese food restaurants in America?

Peace and Love,
Tiffany Fiske

My girlfriend (30) and I (32) began dating 4 months ago and it was wonderful. Our relationship was so intense that it seemed as if we had dated for over a year. We had a perfect relationship, except when my mother who is very controlling and I began to have problems. It all started going downhill since then. she was considering braking up but we manage to salvage the relationship. We then started living together for 2 months, she was very happy when she thought she was pregnant and we even came up with names for our children, we even looked up engagement rings. But then we realized she wasnt pregnant. The problem is that my mother had her number and she would call me to argue with me and i didnt answer she would call her constantly. My mother and her never met before and only talked on the phone once. My mother is sick and unemployed and I have helped her financially. over the last weekend of last month, my problems with my mom increased to the point that my girlfriend became so sensitive and fed up that she blew up at me and asked me to go home. Then she didnt talk for 3 days and then texted me that she couldnt do this anymore she wanted to be friends and when i solve my problem with my mother maybe we could reconnect in the future. She said that she felt like she was the cause of my problems and she didnt want to be in the middle. As a reaction to this i ended up doing the same thing to my mom that my girlfriend did to me. My mother and I didnt talk for like 5 days until she then called me at my work saying she was very sick because of what i had done to her, we then ended up arguing again and she called my ex-girlfriend, with whom i was trying to fix things by showing her that I wanted to be with her regardless of what my mother wanted. She didnt answer the phone, but called her back after work and my mom didnt answer, but she left her an ugly message. Then my mom and I made peace when she realized what had happened and wanted to mend things with her and and even texted her that she wanted to talk to her and sent her greetings and a hug. FOR some reason my mom did not get the message my girlfriend sent her until 2 days later. She then replied very cut and dry saying that tomorrow would be better. My mom said ok I will then call you tomorrow evening around 8pm. My mom then called her twice and sent her a text, but she didn’t answer. I then texted her and said that if my mom was the problem and now she had realized that my happiness was with her and to please give her a chance. She then said, lets talk tomorrow. So the next day she agreed to go to a restaurant and she was very friendly, and we talked for a while until I asked her whether she had thought about the situation and she said not really. and I asked her if she wanted to fix things. she said she was planning on calling my mom back. and I told her that my mom did get her message and that she was a bit upset and that it would take a bit of effort to talk to her. I suggested things to her about what to tell her, but when I did that she blew up again, asked for the check, and said “i almost fell for it”. and said I will wait for you in the car. Then she told me not to call her again, and that it was over… she was extremely furious like I had never seen her, and then left. I think that I messed up by wanting her to fix things with my mom. I dont know i am confused. She previously said that if I didnt see or talk to my mother just so that I could be with her, it would not work because she knows what a family is and it would not be healthy. Thats why i thought that both of them fixing things would work. I have understood that my life decisions are mine and not my mother, and she is not interfering anymore. I am ready to live my life with freedom. But she doesnt believe me. I guess she interpreted what i said as if i cared too much of what my mom thought or felt, and that she ruled my life and blew up again. I dont know what to do i know that she may be really angry right now and I need to let go, at least for a while until negative emotions subside. I have thought of waiting for a month or two and then buying an engagement ring as the ultimate way of proving to her that i want to be with her and that it doesnt matter whether my mother approves or not because I am a mature individual. I freely told my mother about my plan she said to follow my heart and do it if I chose to and I loved her. The question is whether it this may work. I texted her and said that I would periodically update her about my life situation and that I would look for her in a few months time once she didnt feel any anger. What do you all think?

My girlfriend (30) and I (32) began dating 4 months ago and it was wonderful. Our relationship was so intense that it seemed as if we had dated for over a year. We had a perfect relationship, except when my mother who is very controlling and I began to have problems. It all started going downhill since then. she was considering braking up but we manage to salvage the relationship. We then started living together for 2 months, she was very happy when she thought she was pregnant and we even came up with names for our children, we even looked up engagement rings. But then we realized she wasnt pregnant. The problem is that my mother had her number and she would call me to argue with me and i didnt answer she would call her constantly. My mother and her never met before and only talked on the phone once. My mother is sick and unemployed and I have helped her financially. over the last weekend of last month, my problems with my mom increased to the point that my girlfriend became so sensitive and fed up that she blew up at me and asked me to go home. Then she didnt talk for 3 days and then texted me that she couldnt do this anymore she wanted to be friends and when i solve my problem with my mother maybe we could reconnect in the future. She said that she felt like she was the cause of my problems and she didnt want to be in the middle. As a reaction to this i ended up doing the same thing to my mom that my girlfriend did to me. My mother and I didnt talk for like 5 days until she then called me at my work saying she was very sick because of what i had done to her, we then ended up arguing again and she called my ex-girlfriend, with whom i was trying to fix things by showing her that I wanted to be with her regardless of what my mother wanted. She didnt answer the phone, but called her back after work and my mom didnt answer, but she left her an ugly message. Then my mom and I made peace when she realized what had happened and wanted to mend things with her and and even texted her that she wanted to talk to her and sent her greetings and a hug. FOR some reason my mom did not get the message my girlfriend sent her until 2 days later. She then replied very cut and dry saying that tomorrow would be better. My mom said ok I will then call you tomorrow evening around 8pm. My mom then called her twice and sent her a text, but she didn’t answer. I then texted her and said that if my mom was the problem and now she had realized that my happiness was with her and to please give her a chance. She then said, lets talk tomorrow. So the next day she agreed to go to a restaurant and she was very friendly, and we talked for a while until I asked her whether she had thought about the situation and she said not really. and I asked her if she wanted to fix things. she said she was planning on calling my mom back. and I told her that my mom did get her message and that she was a bit upset and that it would take a bit of effort to talk to her. I suggested things to her about what to tell her, but when I did that she blew up again, asked for the check, and said “i almost fell for it”. and said I will wait for you in the car. Then she told me not to call her again, and that it was over… she was extremely furious like I had never seen her, and then left. I think that I messed up by wanting her to fix things with my mom. I dont know i am confused. She previously said that if I didnt see or talk to my mother just so that I could be with her, it would not work because she knows what a family is and it would not be healthy. Thats why i thought that both of them fixing things would work. I have understood that my life decisions are mine and not my mother, and she is not interfering anymore. I am ready to live my life with freedom. But she doesnt believe me. I guess she interpreted what i said as if i cared too much of what my mom thought or felt, and that she ruled my life and blew up again. I dont know what to do i know that she may be really angry right now and I need to let go, at least for a while until negative emotions subside. I have thought of waiting for a month or two and then buying an engagement ring as the ultimate way of proving to her that i want to be with her and that it doesnt matter whether my mother approves or not because I am a mature individual. I freely told my mother about my plan she said to follow my heart and do it if I chose to and I loved her. The question is whether it this may work. We seem to keep sinking deeper and deeper in a hole. I texted her and said that I would periodically update her about my life situation and that I would look for her in a few months time once she didnt feel any anger and that if she accepted I would provide the ultimate proof that I want to be with her without caring about what other people think. What do you all think, could this work?

My girlfriend (30) and I (32) began dating 4 months ago and it was wonderful. Our relationship was so intense that it seemed as if we had dated for over a year. We had a perfect relationship, except when my mother who is very controlling and I began to have problems. It all started going downhill since then. she was considering braking up but we manage to salvage the relationship. We then started living together for 2 months, she was very happy when she thought she was pregnant and we even came up with names for our children, we even looked up engagement rings. But then we realized she wasnt pregnant. The problem is that my mother had her number and she would call me to argue with me and i didnt answer she would call her constantly. My mother and her never met before and only talked on the phone once. My mother is sick and unemployed and I have helped her financially. over the last weekend of last month, my problems with my mom increased to the point that my girlfriend became so sensitive and fed up that she blew up at me and asked me to go home. Then she didnt talk for 3 days and then texted me that she couldnt do this anymore she wanted to be friends and when i solve my problem with my mother maybe we could reconnect in the future. She said that she felt like she was the cause of my problems and she didnt want to be in the middle. As a reaction to this i ended up doing the same thing to my mom that my girlfriend did to me. My mother and I didnt talk for like 5 days until she then called me at my work saying she was very sick because of what i had done to her, we then ended up arguing again and she called my ex-girlfriend, with whom i was trying to fix things by showing her that I wanted to be with her regardless of what my mother wanted. She didnt answer the phone, but called her back after work and my mom didnt answer, but she left her an ugly message. Then my mom and I made peace when she realized what had happened and wanted to mend things with her and and even texted her that she wanted to talk to her and sent her greetings and a hug. FOR some reason my mom did not get the message my girlfriend sent her until 2 days later. She then replied very cut and dry saying that tomorrow would be better. My mom said ok I will then call you tomorrow evening around 8pm. My mom then called her twice and sent her a text, but she didn’t answer. I then texted her and said that if my mom was the problem and now she had realized that my happiness was with her and to please give her a chance. She then said, lets talk tomorrow. So the next day she agreed to go to a restaurant and she was very friendly, and we talked for a while until I asked her whether she had thought about the situation and she said not really. and I asked her if she wanted to fix things. she said she was planning on calling my mom back. and I told her that my mom did get her message and that she was a bit upset and that it would take a bit of effort to talk to her. I suggested things to her about what to tell her, but when I did that she blew up again, asked for the check, and said “i almost fell for it”. and said I will wait for you in the car. Then she told me not to call her again, and that it was over… she was extremely furious like I had never seen her, and then left. I think that I messed up by wanting her to fix things with my mom. I dont know i am confused. She previously said that if I didnt see or talk to my mother just so that I could be with her, it would not work because she knows what a family is and it would not be healthy. Thats why i thought that both of them fixing things would work. I have understood that my life decisions are mine and not my mother, and she is not interfering anymore. I am ready to live my life with freedom. But she doesnt believe me. I guess she interpreted what i said as if i cared too much of what my mom thought or felt, and that she ruled my life and blew up again. I dont know what to do i know that she may be really angry right now and I need to let go, at least for a while until negative emotions subside. I have thought of waiting for a month or two and then buying an engagement ring as the ultimate way of proving to her that i want to be with her and that it doesnt matter whether my mother approves or not because I am a mature individual. I freely told my mother about my plan she said to follow my heart and do it if I chose to and I loved her. The question is whether it this may work. I texted her and said that I would periodically update her about my life situation and that I would look for her in a few months time once she didnt feel any anger. What do you all think?

I have some cloth diaper questions.

First what brand(s) do you like? I’ve done some research and think I’m going to use bumGenius. Are these a good brand? Why or why not?

About how many do you have? I registered for 26.

What do you do when your baby poops and you’re out somewhere? Like the park, shopping, or a restaurant?? Do you just wash it out in a sink and put it in “something”? What is the something??
Also, do you make other people use cloth when they are watching your baby, say grandparents or other relatives?

Finally, do you wash the diaper out immediately when you are at home and then throw it into a “trash can” type container?? Or by leaving it wet does that cause mold or mildew or anything? Are you suppose to wash them immediately everytime?

Ok, please answer all my questions the best you can, based on your experiences.

Thank you so much!!

peace
♥
do you know how long it takes for a diaper to decompose?? 300-500 YEARS. no thanks, not adding to that.

I’m an Asian girl, and I dated this white guy for 3 months now. We never had any conflicts regarding our race or culture. I consider myself as having grown up accustomed to the Western culture and food. Anyway, one day, just after dinner, we were sitting there doing nothing, he suddenly shared with me that he didn’t feel comfortable when we went to a Chinese “Dim sum” place that day. The food, people and culture were so different. It was as if he was in a foreign country. He felt he didn’t belong and he didn’t want to associate with that culture. But it was the only time we ever went to a Dim Sum place together. Most of the time, we went to Western restaurants. Anyway, i asked him what was he trying to tell me. He said he has been thinking of our future, and it bothers him a little that he would be ‘different’ from most white people. He asked himself if this is what he wants. Emotionally, he wants to be with me and he enjoys our times together. But something is telling him that he should date and marry a white girl, cos that’s the conventional thing to do. He said that he is not at peace about our interracial relationship, and that he wouldn’t marry unless he has peace. I asked him why hadn’t he thought of this before cos he had dated a few Asian girls before me. He said he didn’t realize he has changed so much over the last 10 years. He also brought up the issue of us having kids in the future. He said he will be concerned that our kids will have identity issues, because he knows of mixed people who have identity issues. I disagreed with him, because in my home country, Singapore, mixed people are being looked upon as “having the best of both worlds”. He said that’s not the case in America. I asked if his such thinking will change as time goes by, he said he is not sure, things are so uncertain. I was very disturbed by what he said. After knowing what’s on his mind, i wont be able to face him the same way again. I went home and thought about it. I realized I can’t compromise on my self esteem. If it’s something wrong that I did, i can very well change. But if its a race issue, i can’t change it. My self esteem told me that i should break up with him before he breaks up with me now or in future. So I asked him out the next day and told him that we should take a break from seeing each other. He looked so hurt when I said it, so I cried. It broke my heart to see him hurt. I do love him very much. But I’d rather end it now than much later. He held my hand and asked me if he hasn’t been good to me? In between sobs, I told him he has been very good to me, that’s the problem. I can’t change my race, and I can’t make him think differently either. It’s been 2 days since our break up. I still think I have done the right thing, even though emotionally I don’t feel right. Tell me, could I have done it better?