if the parent refuses to handle the problem appropriately
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfFLMdywTE0
you wouldn’t feel it was discriminatory against a child with autism?

ah,
i’m pretty sure im bisexual, 17 years old.
allthough i have only admitted this to a hand full of people, because if my parents found out, they would destroy me.
i find both men and women equally beautiful.

lot’s of really gorgeous guys have asked me out, and w,e..
im pretty shy though, so all my relationships have been fairly innocent.
for a while there, i thought i was straight, i stopped checking people out, and caring about love..

plus, im the type of person that acts real chill and collected in public, i like being the simple observer, analyzing everything.

i was at a family party last week, and this girl came out on stage, as part of a performance in the restaurant.
she was so incredibly beautiful,
its been a week, and i cant get her out of my mind, i dont know her name or anything, i was too afraid to approach her in front of my family members..

she has long dark curly hair, pale skin, perfect curves, beautiful facial features.
i cant stop thinking about this chick,
what do i do ?
i want her to just leave my mind..

:/
i have never actually had a relationship with a girl before though,
i kissed a few very passionately..

i’ve only truly had one long relationship with a guy.. (7 months)..

i’m so picky, i have never actually fallen for someone from the first sight of them.

idk what to do.

I have no girlfriend
My family has abbandoned me
I currently live off 674 a month 220 of it goes to my rent at subsidize apartment that pay for my utilities
my parents refuse to buy me car after they sold my volkswagen beetle behind my back

I currently work part time as a dishwasher with other disabled ppl and make 400 a month but the government took away 200 of it because they give me SSI

I dont understand why poor ppl are being taxed higher then more wealthy ppl

I subscribe to the internet and have to download stuff illegally i never get to eat at fancy restaurants or drive anwyyerehe

is there anything the USA will help me or do they not like ppl like me? i been to a mental institute like 7 times and i feel very depressed an want to die sometimes i dont uby anything cool cuz i just dont have enough money

and i dont think its fair that i can only make 3 dollars an hour being on SSI cuz the government takes away 2 dollars for every one i earn and i only make around 800 a month while trying to work

is this fair for me i just wanna quit cuz the job is hurting me an hard and the government wont let me keep my money but gives tons of money too pp on unemployment benefits

they also said if i go on food stamps they will take more money from my SSI so its almost useless they want me making no more then 1000 a month so im stuck around 674-800

my life sux plz someone any tips?

We need help deciding what to get our parents as thank you gifts for helping with our wedding. My parents (groom) contributed about $4000 to the wedding. My future wife’s parents contributed about $20,000 and paid for our honeymoon. Her parents also have supported us in everything…we couldnt have done it without them! Should we get her parents a more expensive gift since they contributed so much more? For example, should we get my parents a gift card to a local restaurant and show tickets, and get her parents a gift card to a hotel for 2 nights, two restaurant gift cards, and show tickets to a place out of town? And if we do decide to give her parents a nicer gift to thank them for their generosity, should we give the gifts privately so that they dont all see at the rehearsal dinner that one got a nicer gift? Help!

ok so im going to be a senior in HS and so far throughout my HS career…I have snow skiied (since i was 7, every friday saturday, sunday during the winter), and thats it for sports. I did a couple HS clubs such as DECA and a mentoring club to younger children. I have mainly focused on my grades, my gpa now is a 3.1. My parents divorced…split all the money up…my dad recently started a REALLY successful restaurant and now he is saying that “he doesnt have the money to ski this year, and that i need to focus on my grades”. ok so….now I do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING…he wont let me hang out with friends anymore…go skiing with friends…i have to sit at home ALL day and study….so what do I do? I want to go hang out with friends…ski 3 days a week…and NOW I CANT! I even offered to pay for ski stuff with my $$ from my job…and I cannot because he put a block on my debit card! what do I do?? I will die of boredom!! WHAT DO I DO??? I KNOW HE HAS THE MONEY…HE MAKES $3,000 PER DAY AT HIS RESTAURANT!! And I want to ski, and go to friends houses…and have fun….before I go to college and study my A$$ off! HELP PLEASE I AM GOING CRAZY!!!

soo im turning 16 soon and i want to know if you guys have any ideas as to which restaurant i should go to for my party.. im doing dinner then were going to a club.. but im having 10 people at dinner so i dont want to put all that on my parents so i kind of want this restaurant to be nice but on the cheaper side because my rents are already doing so much for me. any ideas?

I have a 3 years old daughter and it is a bit difficult to go to a nice restaurant with her especially with some friends. She makes it impossible for us to enjoy a nice dinner or have a drink with a couple of friends. I want her to be with us during such an occasion but I also want to have sometime at least to talk to my friends instead of reading Curios George stories when I am having my drink. Because we moved to Philadelphia a year ago, we don’t know much about the neighborhood. I know a place where we came from. It was a really classy restaurant and in the middle of the restaurant there was a small playground and three young people taking care of the kids when the parents were having their dinners. You could see your kid all the time and enjoy the dinner at the same time. I wonder if there is such place in Philadelphia? Does anyone know such a place? Thanks.
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I am 21 years old, and I have never dated in my life. Also I have to know the answer to these questions before the right time comes please. I am actually going to list them in numbering form and also please answer them detail and in the same numbering form, and only answer the ones you could, to really help me out because its going to be my first time. (Points for every one).

1) When I ask a girl out on a Dinner/Coffee, should I ask her where she would like to go? or I just pick the restaurant/coffee shop?
2) Do I give her the Address/Time to meet me in that particular location, or I will pick her up? Also what if she is religious, hiding it from her parents or any other issues (for a while), then picking her up would be still okay or what? Also I might not know if she wants to hide it, or something, so what to do how should we meet?
3) If I am picking her up, do I get out of the car and knock on the door, or do I honk, or call her to come out of her home or give her a fixed time to meet me outside like in front of her garage or what?
4) Once arrived at the Restaurant/Coffee Shop, do I need to pick the same item on the menu that she has chosen or its okay to eat/drink something different.
5) If we are going to a restaurant, does it have to be some place to have Waiters? OR it could be a restaurant where there is no waiters, like you order and then come sit and they will bring it to you, OR like you can go order and then go pick it yourself when its ready. (Think of McDonald’s).
6) Do you ask her what kind of food she likes/if she drinks coffee at all or not, like ask her before first date, I mean may be when you call her/in text message or something.
7) If you go to restaurant where they have beer or alcohol, I mean do they let you enter in the first place or they ask for idea? And if they let you enter for dinner or lunch, and then you decide to grab a drink from the bar and you are under 21, do they ask for ID on the bar or they just give it to you? In other words do they see ideas while entering in the restaurant (like a club) or they just ask for it if you order a drink or something. What if you drink with your girl, then what to do? Like how to come home because you have your own car and can not be able to take a cab?
9) Can you guys please list some Restaurants/Coffee Shops good for the first date, like normal popular Restaurants/Coffee shops people date around America. (I mean off course you don’t want to go the McDonald’s on a first date, but what about Star Bucks, just name some).
10) Also I live in Salt Lake City, Utah and please name some Restaurants/Coffees shops around here if you live here. (But if not answer for what I have asked in question# 9).

P.S. Sorry for a long list, but I really want to know all of this.

Please read it all i really really appreciate your advice it means the world to me.

I dated this girl for a year. We met last year on the last day of my vacation to Italy. She lives there. We talked on msn, skype, txted and called every single day. I trusted her, she trusted me, the communication was great better than most face to face relationships. She told me she didn’t believe in long distance relationships but she had a good feeling about me.

This summer i went back to see her. We were sooooooo excited to see each other. I went on a diet, bleeched my teeth, bought a brand new wardrobe and so much more in preparation and when i went back she was everything i wanted and more.

Here’s the problem.

Her parents were messing with us since day 1. They wouldn’t talk to me or look at me. Her parents knew who i was! they talked to me online all the time they would say hello and ask me how i was doing and they knew i was going to come back to italy to see their daughter. A third party invited us to a restaurant so her folks picked me up and for the whole trip there and back they didn’t say a word to me! And i hadn’t done anything wrong!

She told me her parents were fighting with her before and after she would go out with me therefore ruining any of the fun she’d have with me. I realized things were hard for her after only 8 days and she told me she can’t handle the pressure from her family and friends who told her we weren’t good for each other. I told her to take a break for 3 days and deal with her parents to figure things out because i didn’t want to let them ruin us (MY BIGGEST MISTAKE!)

3 days go by we talked on the phone cuz her parents wouldn’t let her meet with me and she told me they’re against the idea of us being together and asked me what we should do. She wouldn’t tell me what her parents’ problem was with me it’s like she was scared of telling me. I told her it was over and that maybe she could feel comfortable telling me about it now. She still didn’t. So I ended it there.

After I told her i never wanted to talk to her ever again, she called me a couple days later. We talked and things were good. A few days after that i called her and told her i wanted to meet up with her cuz there was no way i was going to throw a whole year away over a stupid fight. It was her decision i and wanted her to tell me whether she wanted me or not.

We met up and she told me she can’t do it anymore and she can’t see it working out between us. I told her we should try and make it work because if we want to we truly can. I only had 12 days left in italy and i wanted to spend them with her. She said she doesn’t want to get attached to me again for another 12 days and then having to say goodbye would be too hard for her. She said i’ll never be there (in person) when she wants me there and neither can she for me.

The next day she emails me telling me it’s not going to work and she couldn’t do it in person because she doesn’t want me to see her cry. She ended it, said she was sorry and cared for me a lot and won’t delete me off fb or msn. She said she doesn’t want me to hate her for this but it’s best for both of us this way and she wants me to send her email telling her how i’m doing once i come back home and once i’m ready to talk to her again.

I haven’t spoken to her ever since and it’s been almost 2 months. I miss her a lot but there’s no chance i want to initiate contact after what she did because it’s going to make me feel and look desperate.

Will she ever talk to me again? Will she ever regret not trying for those 12days? Did her environment force her to end it or did she lose feeling for me after only 8 days?

Please help.

Thank you very much in advance

we met at disney at a restaurant named espn we went to watch final cup of soccer. we both went to spain. uh my mom says she likes me cause she always looking at me sitting next to me.. we dont see each other cause she lives in the same place but i live in house she lives around in a plaza. i told her i like her and i asked her who she likes… she told me she didnt like anyone and ive being going to her soccer practices because my brother goes too and i pretend that i came here for my friends. my uncle says that theres a girl looking at and it was her. this week im not gonna do anything i aint gonna go to her soccer practice or speak to her this week… to see what she does… her parents say to her to focus on her studies so they are kinda of strict with responsibility. what should i do? what do you think does she like me or not? what is she tryind to do… because i text her and she doesnt reply and its wierd cause after i told her i liked her she stop talking, but these 2 weeks ive being kind of leaving her alone… please tell me what to do and what u think… and try to explain in a way i can understand cause im only 13 ooh and the girl i like is 14 but she tells me i look like im 16 because of my height and personality