I am helping to put together a bachelorette spa day, with lunch at a nearby restaurant afterwards. The dilemma is that the spa can only accomodate a small group, and so we plan to invite family and wedding party members to the spa, and additional guests to have dinner with us afterward. How do I word the invitation for the “dinner only” guests without making them feel slighted? Thanks!

bride name and groom name
Will be married in a private ceremony
In St. Phillip, Barbados
Please join us for a dinner reception
to celebrate our union
On August 14, 2010
At 5 o’clock
At restaurant Name
city, state

is this ok r should I change something ?
know I don’t want have the will be married in … But the invitation consultant told me that if my invites are going out before my ceremony i need to say that I’m going to Barbados I have no clue?