My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 6 months. He is the best boyfriend I ever had and I can’t see myself with anyone else. He makes me happy. However, last night we both admit to each other that there is something missing in the relationship and we are scare of breaking up. He thinks he is going to lose me and also mentioned that he promise to never break up with me. He just started this internship by working in this restaurant that requires a lot of time. He has Sunday and Wednesday off. So I would try to see him either one of those days. I’ve noticed that I would be calling him a lot and texting him, but he gets out of work late and sometimes I wouldn’t hear from him the whole day. I told him many times that you should be texting me or calling me back, and he does.. but sometimes he doesn’t.

In the beginning, he was the one calling and texting me.. but now it has cut down to almost no texting or calling. Everytime we see each other, we’re really happy and we spend as much time as we can, but there’s still something missing. I don’t know what it is. Could it be the lack of communication? Or the the lack of motivation??

:(HELLPPP

im very confused about the sudden behavior of my bf….everythng was goin gr8 btw us…we love each other a lot very truly n deeply……we were in same school , left it 7 yrs ago but met at facebook , he proposed me and i accepted….n we chatted a lot at facebook , at other social networkin sites , we chatted thru texting at phones n even we chatted a lot on cell phone by havin a talk…..n then he wanted to meet me n our first date took place on 21st May i was nervous but he loved me more after meetin me…….we loved n liked each other….he found me beautiful n i found him vry handsum….we went to a restaurant had food….hanged out here there n travelled by a public bus that day….it was fun…..we didn’t do anything physical but held hands n a little warm hug….even in scorching heat he enjoyed wid me a lot in the sunlight……n after that we were normal n everythng wz so smooth…. our relationshp is 4 months old at present…..20 days ago i went out of
town n i told him i’ll nt be able to make a call but i’ll try…..i did once but still we text chatted during those days….he was always so cheerful n happy go lucky kinda person….i called him 2 days ago n he had a talk wid me for half hour….during talking when i told him that im puttin the phone “Don’t u wanna say smething ??? r u missing something to be said ?” he said no n cut the phone , that tym we didn’t even had a love talk i was feelin more like i was talkin 2 my frnd than my bf…..but then i send him a txt msg that “u didn’t even say “Love u” im talkin 2 u after 22 days n he said “U should have said first” then i told him to call me n say it but he didn’t call me rather he txted me back n said im always full of excuses that my family is around me n i can’t say “I love u rite now”….then i txted him several times that i love him but he didn’t say me those three words till today :((((( i soooo saddy saddy…..i had txted him a lot that whats wrong….”u’ve never been like ths “….he almost did more than 20 msgs a day n always chattin to me but hez avoidin me now….n after my askin him he says im nt ignorin u im okay everythngz cool…..but still hes nt textin me the wy he did before jus replyin me unromantically as if hez a colleague of mine…..when i asked him what he did the past 20 days when i was out of town he said that he chatted wid a girl who was his classmate of school time n she said him that shez been lookin out for someone….im soooo stressed abt all this….Plzzzz dear people guide me what to do ???? i cant imagine my life without him….n he said he he’z been goin out of town for his job for 6 - 7 months in June only n i can’t meet him
n i explained him my problems n he ‘z sayin that im always ready to give excuses……but how to make him feel that hez so important to me n i really love him a lot…..im very conscious abt him n dunn wana loose him at any cost….due to my trip i’ve become so tanned up that i can’t meet him for few months before coming in my original complexion , if i’ll meet him now he might get a false impression of my beauty of find me less attractive than before , dun wanna tell him that im very tanned up rite now n lookin like hell…..but what to do as he’z goin out of town for his job for 6-7 months :(( n plzzz also temme the cause of his this kinda behavior

Thankyou Friends please ppl answer me m sorry its lonnng i knw but i really need serious advice abt it

ok, lately ive been kinda liking someone i shouldnt. a little more than i should. this person is my cousin and they are way older than i am, but i still really like them for some reason. i havent really liked liked my cousin ever. and now, i do.. a lot…i guess its ever since my grandmother passed away.. i had a very deep connection with my grandmother.. once she died, its like im missing something.. i dont really have that sort of connection with anyone. not friends or parents or sister.. its kinda like im alone for the time being. its only recently that ive noticed i started liking my cousin a lot more than i should. call it a major crush i guess.. my cousin and i have been hanging out a lot lately. we go do things and talk a lot. there was this one instance where i was humiliated by my own father at a restaurant. so i went to the car and started crying (ima guy, but some things get to me), well the only person to come out and talk to me was my cousin. i really liked how they just came and cheered me up. i meant a lot to me. do you think that i actually have a crush on my cousin or do you think im just lacking the kind of connection i had with my grandmother? its unknown to me because even when it seems im just lacking that connection, in my mind i cant help but think i might actually have a crush on my cousin. its just weird. and its cool, whoever answers this can say its wrong, its your opinion. trust me, i think its wrong too.

i eat roast beef sandwiches for snacks all the time now hehe. got a pretty rough job so just get hungry from all teh physical work i do.

anyways i make em this way
honeywheat
deli cheese
some deli roastbeef that actually taste like roastbeef(found the oscar myar to taste really good)
it’s missing just some kind of sauce or condiment, not sure what to add

and no i hate lettuces and tomato or veggies on something thats suppose to be mostly meat/bread hehe. always order my stuff plain at the restaurants although mustard is slightly growing on me for hotdogs