I have terrible foot pain lately. Not everyday, walk-it-off pain, but real crippling pain in my feet, ankles and heels. I work in a restaurant, and just got new orthopedic shoes with arch support, but I have flat feet. Could this be the problem? I also have a defect in my feet that I was born with, so pain has always been an issue, I just don’t know why it has gotten so unbearable. How can i prevent it without taking too much medicine?

I am in college and where I live we have a big dining room like a restaurant.
Any way one night I was sitting at the table eating my dinner and I noticed these girls laughing really loudly and I looked up and they were looking in my direction.
I thought they were laughing at me or maybe I was being paranoid. Then I stared at them and they kept they kept laughing and they tried to stop laughing when I was staring at them. When I looked down again I’m sure I heard them saying things like “look at the way she eats or look she’s scratching her hair”. (it’s true that I was scratching/rubbing my hair or face but only once it’s not like I sit there and do it all the time.)
The next day I asked one of them why they were laughing at me and she denied that was.
She said “you were just there when I was having a laughing fit”
The thing is the girl I talked to seemed normal and approachable when I confronted her about laughing at me.
She seemed like she was telling the truth but I still had doubts in my mind. She even told me she was studying medicine and a college RA so that is why I think I am paranoid because why would someone like waste their time laughing at me???
The next night (this was after I approached her) I noticed them laughing really loudly again like they were doing it on purpose so I would know they were laughing at me. one of them said “subtle” in a really loud voice. If someone says that I take it mean that they are trying to imply that they are not really ’subtle’ and trying to get my attention/make me feel unconfortable. If I think this way does it make me crazy/paranoid/self-centered or would people really do that?

Does this whole thing sound insane to people reading it because if it does I guess I am paranoid.

I work for a Medicine factory in Jerusalem. And my dad lives in Canada, he has a restaurant. The reason I’m asking this is because most Muslims in Canada, USA, etc have gas stations, dollar stores, restaurants, truck drivers, and work as a “kasheesh” or in “kasha” someone who works as a kasheesh is someone who sells people stuff going door by door. But not many people from Palestine, or at least my town works a job that requires education. So

what do u and/or your father work??
@ the kicker of all oops
learn how to read the full description, yes including the end. i clearly stated that “at least people from my town”

Okay, so I’ve been living in my studio apartment for about 2 years almost and i started seeing roaches about a few months ago, and about a few weeks ago to a month, i started seeing very tiny baby roaches, and now I’m starting to see them everywhere (from the bathroom,closets,medicine cabinets,kitchen drawers, around my couches etc….) Does anyone know what i should do, Im an elderly woman living with my teenage grandson(who I am worried about because he told me that roaches like crawling on skin of children because it is tender and soft and its just disgusting), please i hate roaches with a passion and I need help, I live in New York City on the 2nd floor of a pre war building right above a restaurant if that helps, Im not so sure if any of that contributes to the roaches problem but I just really need help
Should I get an exterminator, or is there any sprays,foggers or methods that I should usee?

I have been with a girl for four years, ever since she was 17. She is now 21 and I have been trying to save her all this time because i loved her. This girl is very caring, intelligent (class valedictorian) and beautiful. But she has been extremely negative, pessimistic and angry about 50% of the time. I have reached my limit and my boundaries are stretched. I do have a gigantic curiosity of what i have allowed my self to deal with for all these years. she has come to a point of making her own money and she is growing highly disrespectful. I am happy that she finally has something to make her happy besides my company but she is getting way obnoxious now to the point where i have to let her go. The reason i have stuck around this long is because i have known her since she was seventeen and it feels like i want the best for her and it is my duty to help this girl for some reason. I need someone with psychological expertise to help me understand what she has been hiding from me about her mental ailment all these years.

List of my experiences with her:

when we first met she was needy, clingy, jealous, angry

says nothing in life makes her happy

she showed her love for me when i had no true friends to help me in my lowest times of need. she stuck by my side to be there for me

she is caring towards me in a since when i need she gives or she protects me from the negativity of others

uses projective identification. she came to me with bags knowing she has anger issues but tries to depress me by calling me miserable. also says “we” should go to counseling but we are not married nor have i had to argue as much with any of my previous girlfriends?

talks about me in bad ways to her friends and family but runs to “only” me if she feels like trying to hurt herself by taking too much medicine. then after i save her because i love her a few days later she will talk about me bad again and this hurts me (trying to hurt herself happened only once that i know)

after our brief separation i noticed cuts on her arm and she denies knowing how they got there. this visual lasted about two months during the four years knowing her

has been hospitalized at the age of 14 for severe depression

loves to call me then talk over me and disagree with anything i have to say which leaves me feeling drained and panicky. after i think it makes her feel she accomplished something by putting me in an icky negative feeling

if she misunderstands me i try to communicate why i said what i said for clearer communication but she interjects and talks over me saying my opinion is stupid and she connects more with her other friends. in all reality i am her only true friend and this give me minor anxiety

her mother, brother, grandmother and father put her out four different times. I let her stay every time then she calls a friend on the phone one day to tell an associate of hers im a bad person

every happy event i plan at the beach or restaurant is turned into morbid misery and she will find one thing to be unhappy about to make rain pour on it

i convinced her after four years to get anger counseling or i would leave her and she has. (she is now telling me i am bad for her and she has boundaries??)

she chooses pessimism over optimism. i am a positive person and relaxed non confrontational

never finds my jokes funny. she will be passive aggressive and be way non humorous

if you don’t follow her book studies or her “opinion” she gets evil and irate saying we all are stupid people

she HATES when i bring up the past as a source of proof of her reputation of evil only after she does something negative.

loves to destroy my personal things numerous amounts of times and then denies she knows anything about what happened.

anything positive i have going on in my life she tears it down as if im not doing something right or im not doing enough. i could be getting a noble peace prize in one day and she will say that’s nice but why is it special or that doesn’t mean their going to give you the prize tomorrow..

always gets jealous whenever i say a friend did something for me. she responds i should recognize when she does things for me which i always do

she is a persistent liar. i asked her to be honest to help her then i caught her in a lie about getting medication from her friend who suffers from depression.

she admits that she starts the majority of the arguments and she is aware a little now that she has anger but thinks its stems from her parents divorce MANY years ago. she also admits i have been her number one person who has helped her the most

First off, I know it is 2 AM. I am tired out of my mind but this has been on my mind all week. The kids are sleep so it’s time to write!

My husband and I recently went to what they called a “5 star restaurant.” The food was NOT 5 star, waiting time, or the a waiter. Specifically a women waiter who discussed her hatred for Interracial Marriage/Relationships. My husband is Caucasian and I am African-American. She treated us so terribly. Now I tired to talk to the manger but he was “unavailable” and I guess he believed in that issue too. I’ve told family and my uncle tells me, “Sue, Sue, Sue!” That is the perfect reason to sue.. They need to get a taste of their own medicine. My aunt on the other hands says,” It’s pure ignorance but no reason to sue.”

My husband wants to sue the restaurant. How do you guys feel about this issue?

By taking her to some fabulous restaurants in the Rochester, NY area. Can anyone suggests some great places to eat at? No too expensive. Many thanks in advance.
She does enjoy getting out of the house and tasting different foods. Her nauseous has been managed with medicine.
I just want ti get her out of the house and if we end up at a restaurant maybe she will find something that appeals to her and give her a little comfort and a feeling of normalcy. Its been very tough and i don’t know what to do or how to balance my responsibilities and her need and my need to be with her. I just though lunches out of the house would be a nice change for her.

if a customer walks in to a restaurant & the restaurant is a small location, & a customer walks in but his odor is extreamly bad, & sometimes smells like swet really bad other times comes in & smells like vEEEERy strong medicine, so bad other customer get up & leave , is there anything that person could be told with out risking the owner of the restaurant or the employee getting fired or sued? the man isnt a homeless he drives a car dresses with normal clothes but his oder is horrible! so bad owners loose business when hes in the shop

1.) Name a junk food with the letter j.
2.) Name a product name with the letter a.

3.) Name a magazine with the letter o.

4.) Name a restaurant with the letter b.

5.) Name a type of medicine with the letter k.

6.) Name a term of endearment with the letter g.

7.) Name a someone from the Bible with the letter c.

8.) Name a tv show with the letter t.

9.) Name a world record with the letter s.

10.) Name a school subject with the letter p.

11.) Name a type of college major with the letter q.

12.) Name something you find in a souvenoir shop with the letter i.

13.) Name a stone or gems with the letter b.

i’m 15 (16 in august) and i want to get a job so i can start helping out at home. i want to major in sports medicine so if theres a job out there that can help me with the experience then that would be great.
if not then something to do with sports, animals, or the environment would be nice but i’m not picky.
as long as its not mcdonalds or any other fast food restaurant.