ok so my boyfriend and i had a baby six months ago, just last month we finally got a place of our own, we didnt want to rush anything bc we had only been together a year. anyway long story short, we finally decided it was time to move in together and things have been great, until recently. i had to quit my job bc i worked ina different town. my bf was understanding about it bc he knew it was ridiculous for me to spend so much time driving back and forth. he told me hed take care of the bills while i looked for another job. well here we are three weeks later and still nothing, i swear i have applied everywhere in town! it is hard to finda job right now, i have even applied at fast food restaurants, anything, i just need to be working. i called him an hour ago on his lunch break, he works nights, and he had this pissy attitude, and i asked him what his deal was and he says to me taht he is tired of me doing nothing, and that if something doesnt change quick hes going to kick me out, which is crap, my name is on the lease and i paid all the deposits, not him. anyway, i was like what the hell u know ive been putting in applications every freaking day and trying so hard and he said that it doesnt matter that hes just tired of me doing nothing. well then i got mad, bc i dont do nthing. i take care of the baby day and night by myself bc he works at night and sleeps all day, i clean the house, i do the shopping for the house, i have his dinner ready every night for him before he goes to work, most nights i cant even sit down and eat with him bc im feeding the baby her dinner as well. he helps me with nothing. he never changes a diaper, he never feeds the baby, he wouldnt even watch her for fifteen mins tonight while i ran to return a movie, he made me take her with me bc he was playing a video game. im so pissed by this comment he made of me doing nothing, when i take care of t he house and the baby all the time with no help, and im busting my ass trying to find a job, but what he doesnt understand is that its hard for me to find a job bc i have to work certain hours around his shift bc we dont have a babysitter. honestly right now my first instinct is to tell him to go fuck himself bc him talking to me that way and telling me i do nothing is just ridiculous in my eyes, but im just wondering if maybe im overreacting and i should jsut turn off the phone and cool down bc all i wanna do right now is call him back and tell him to kiss my ass. i understand he is the one working, but he only works eight hours, then he comes home and sleeps for ten, gets up plays video games and goes back to work, so for himt o tell me i do nothing….ugh!!! im so furious!!!

I was at work the other day me and my friend were talking about my wedding coming up soon. All a sudden everyone in the restaurant started saying don’t do it. Telling me how wrong i was to get married and how i was stupid to get young so soon ( i am 19 has been with my fiance for 4 years). I even had one guy tell me he could guarantee that we would end in divorce before our 2 year mark. I know everyone has there own opinion but i think that was a little much and it really upset me. I know i love my fiance both of our family’s love the fact that we are getting married. My mom loves telling the story about how she new we would be together forever when I was 15 because he was skipping across the parking lot singing with me ( he was raised in a very proper household). I know they should not upset me but i thought a girl was talking about her wedding people should congratulate her not say that her marriage will end in divorce. Am i wrong is everyone entailed to there own opinion or was that rude of them.
I work at Waffle House, very common in the south if you have not heard about it. ( I am in school also)
Marytoo we support ourself just great right now we are both in college. We pay all our bills on time, paying for everything in the wedding by ourselfs and are buying our own house no help from or parents. We still act like kids in love which I think is great.

Are there any Thai restaurants located in the East Bay (Oakland, Berkeley, Albany, Richmond, Hayward, San Leandro, etc.) that has on it’s menu Kana Moo Grob (Khana Mu Krop), Chinese Broccoli with Crispy Pork Belly? I found one place in San Francisco but my search via menus listed on Yelp led nowhere.

I’m a college student, and my only real work experience is 4 years as a dishwasher/bus boy at a restaurant.

I’ve applied at several retail stores (Target, Wal Mart, Best Buy, Sears), but I’ve heard that none of them accept people without retail experience. None of them have called me back yet, and I applied last Thursday.

None of the grocery stores in my area hire people in the summer because they have loads of employees between the ages of 14 and 17 they need to give a fair amount of hours to.

Gas stations and fast food establishments seem like the only option to me, but don’t those both require experience too?

Any advice would be appreciated.

She is my sister’s governess, and I know she is currently unattached–she ended a relationship of five years last fall (as did I). We usually converse for three to four continuous hours, twice a week, about themes ranging from the trivial to very personal life experiences. She hugs me tightly both when greeting and leaving, and when we talk she ‘mirrors’ my gestures, which I am led to believe is a sign of attraction. I have invited her to lunch next week under the pretence of ‘discussing my sister’, and she agreed. Should I bring up any particular theme for conversation? Should I behave in a particular manner in the restaurant? How could I subtly show her that I am very seriously interested in her? Would this last strategy be conductive to my–honourable–goals? I am utterly lost at this, so I thank you beforehand for any well intentioned and constructive guidance you may provide.

I met the girl that I loved since I met her.I met her twice since we put and end to our friendship.First time I was able to hold myself back,acted as we had no common past.Not long ago I met her for the second time, i was with friends.This time i had no chance to “escape”, we were at a small restaurant and she wsas the only person that was able to serve us at the moment. I was my old self and some how i made her laugh.
Some of my friends knew her too, so they had a brief discourse. While she was talking with them she kept looking at me, first I was ignorent about it, but later on,when every body where busy. We looked at each other.I could read the sadness in her face, and i was missing her , and the times we spend together.
How can get over her? I even attempt a suicide,and right now I am going through some stupid recovery program.I tolled her that I was about to do it, but I am not sure that she knows that I eventually did it.

David is a restaurant owner and is suing one of his suppliers for breach of contract. The contract required the supplier to deliver Alaskan Crab three times a week, but in the fourth week of the contract the supplier discontinued the delivery. The complaint and the answer have been filed and they are in the middle of discovery. Dave’s attorney has three remaining areas he would like to investigate. These are (1) to review a copy of the suppliers shipping records because he believes the supplier was selling the Alaskan Crab to a competitor; (2) preserve the testimony of the Alaskan fisherman who catches the crab for the supplier because the fisherman will not be available for trial; and (3) get the supplier to admit before trial that he stopped shipping the crab to David.

Explain what discovery methods you would use to obtain this information and how they work.

Okay, my mom has this annoying rule that she wants me to get a job before I get my temps. Ya, not my license, my temps. I totally understand that she wants me to be capable of paying for my own gas and insurance, but seeing as there are so few jobs available in my area, and those jobs are being filled by older, more qualified, and jobless people, I would need to get a job farther away from my house - like, more than your average walking distance. I am 16 and I have been able to get my temps now for almost a year. I am very capable of driving, and can already drive, its just a matter of being able to drive legally. I already have a car, my mom even bought it for me (ironic. Right?) and she is still saying that I need a job. I have applied at every fast food restaurant known to man around town and just about any other business that hires minors. I am being made fun of by this idiotic kid at school who is younger than me and always rubs it in my face that he can drive. My best friend has her license, and many of my other friends are about to get their licenses. I am getting so tired of the fact that everyone around me is getting privileges handed to them, while I have to actually earn everything I get. It is hard enough to keep my grades at a passing level as is, and I have no idea how I am going to fit a job on top of that. My mom just doesn’t seem to understand that school is a job in end of itself, I wouldn’t have a stable, always available ride everyday, and if I get a job, my grades are going to suffer from it, ergo, bad college application. I need to find a way to convince my mom that a job is not something that I want to get into right now because I am concerned with just passing school, let alone doing that and a job. After I get my license, I will be able to alter my school schedule for next year to be able to have school part time and get out early to go to a job, but I would need my license first. I am very willing to get a job, but since it is hard enough for me to keep my grades up, I would rather get a license first, then make arrangements with my school schedule. Does anyone have any advice?

Btw: I doubt insurance is a big deal for her to pay, she has gotten a new job recently and has obtained quite a few raises. She paid my brother’s insurance while he was jobless, which was for a year, so I don’t see why she couldn’t pay for mine like she did for my brother. Anyway, my insurance would be cheaper for me than my brother, because rates with our insurance company are lower for girls, and he has been in a minor accident before.

It’s an Italian pizza/pasta place, I’m going Saturday night for a trial run. I literally went in, handed in my resume, and he said on the spot “come in Sat night for a trial run”. I have no idea what to expect! I have no experience, which he said was fine. He was one of those scary Italians who probably don’t mean to be scary but just are. And someone heard that a girl quit because they yelled a lot. Lol now I’m scared. I can’t deal with high pressure places like that. If it’s super busy I will DIE. I will sweat like crazy, become nearly overwhelmed, have a headache, and probably forgetful. What does a job like this enquire? I think it’s in the kitchen AND on the floor. I’m a nervous wreck!
Thanks.

I’m an alcoholic.. A functional one. I didn’t lose anything, I’m doing great at work and my wife loves me, however I do have a drinking problem. I love beer. I can control myself if I have to not drink, but frankly, I can count on my hand the number of days I didn’t drink in the last 10 years. Never really affected my life, as I tend to not get “drunk”, but it’s really an habit. When I wash the car, when I watch a hockey game, when I go to the restaurant, when I play video game, when I sail my boat… I think there’s not one occasion that doesn’t “deserve a few beers”. However, i’m able to not drink when it’s not appropriate, such as long road trip, or during work. But I’ll usually drink as soon as I arrive home. I can easily reach 8 beers in one night.

Now I’ve had a car crash 1 month ago (was sober!), and the car rolled over several time. My car was a convertible, my head hit the grass a few times while it was rolling over on the side of the highway. This caused issues to some of my cervical discs, C4-C5, C6-C7 and D2. (Inflation)

The pain started to create anxiety, and eventually led to some panic attacks. And well, I was prescribed Gavindo (300mg Gabapentin, and Vitamin B1, B12), to take every 12 hours, and from another doctor, I was prescribed 0.25 MG Xanax pills “BREAK THE GLASS IN CASE OF EMERGENCY” prescription.

Those panic attacks can get really scary so I don’t mind having the emergency pills, they have helped a few times, although my orthopedist wants me to pass through the anxiety attacks without the xanax, and handle it by myself.

Anyway, Both medicines (xanax and gabapentin) CAN’T be mixed with alcohol. And I don’t mind leaving alcohol.I think this is a good opportunity to quit, however, I’m already dealing with anxiety and panic attacks, so I’m afraid of the withdrawal symptoms. I’m reaching 3 days without alcohol, so far so good. Problems sleeping. I’ve red about the dangers of sudden withdrawal such as seizures etc… I’m really afraid of this. How “strong” an alcoholic do you need to be in order to suffer seizures, dt’s etc..?

Is quitting alcohol while working on my new anxiety attacks due to my back pain and car crash a good idea?

I’m really not sure what to do here.. I did not talk to my orthopedist about my alcohol problems. My HEAD is ready to quit alcohol. My MIND is ready to quit. But I’m afraid of what I can’t control, and that is PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS due to withdrawal.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

PS: Sorry for my mediocre English, it isn’t my primary language.
Edit: I’m starting physical therapy to help recover from the injury tomorrow of course, and will talk about my anxiety and alcoholism with the doctor.