im weirded out by the idea, the moment that i will have sex for the 1st time. im 21. the only possible explanation to me is that when i was about 1, my mom’s physcho uncle kinda forced himself on me. OR that i have been treated like a little kid my whole life. i have researched it online, and hey, it seems interesting. definetly different. but i am so scared of the moment that i will have to… pull down my pants or something. haha.
i’ve been getting close with this guy that i work with for over a year, he is so perfect for me. we are bf/gf, i guess….. but our relationship is totally on the downlow. we tell each other i love you and all that. we are coworkers at a restaurant, he’s a cook & im a waitress. he’s 27. he’s never pressured me into anything.
2 nights ago when we went out, he said he wanted to ask me something but he didnt want me to think i was a type of dude that he isn’t. i told him i wouldn’t get mad, and it took him a minute but he finally asked me if i have ever had sex…. i told him im a virgin. well anyways, we were just talking, and he asked if i was afraid of him, and i told him no, i wasn’t. and then that lead to maybe. he asked if i was afraid because ive never done it before and i said i guess… i told him im not like the virgin mary like, i have to someday. and i do want to. he told me that he wants to, whenever I am ready, like, he’s not going to ever make me do anything. I said thats cool. After we were chilling in my car, he wanted out of my car and it was kinda cold outside, so we couldn’t do anything. it was late. he got a hotel room for like 2 hours and we didn’t do anything but make out, lay down and just talk…. all he did really was slip his hand under the back of my shirt. haha.
anyways, my question is, i am in love with him as i will ever be. i can NEVER stop thinking about him. and for the first time ever, i love going to work just because i get to talk to him more and see him there. i think he is the perfect guy for me. How come I am not ready to have sex with him yet?? I know he has always been really respectful to me, and he is definetly not a virgin, so yeah, i do want to. I just can’t work up the courage to say I am ready…………… help? lol

I have this beautiful girl at my school. At the beggining of the school year we started to talk and have talked a few times. I believe that she likes me due to the fact that she smiles at me and acts really nice around me. She is stunningly beautiful and I get chills everytime I talk to her, its amazing. I really want to not blow it and come off ass a jackass or something.

I dont know how to start a conversation that would lead to me asking her on a date.

I need some ideas as well as places to take her, I was thinking the movies or a casual restaurant for lunch?? help please ?
im excited and cant stop thinking about her XD

There is a restaurant that I absolutely love that I really want to work at. I’ve worked at one restaurant before and I’ve gone to culinary school. But this is my first time actually searching for a job, on my own without recommendations, and I really don’t know how to ask if there are any open positions.

I know that I need to go to the restaurant and ask for any openings in person and hand them my resume (at downtime, 3-4pm), but this particular restaurant closes down with a steel gate in front of the door like those in mall shops. So I can’t knock on the front door. However, the back door seems to lead directly into the kitchen - would it be rude to knock and ask to speak to someone? And if I do, who do I ask for? It seems to be the only visible door that isn’t totally locked down… but I don’t want to disturb the cooks. I was thinking maybe I should just call the restaurant, but it doesn’t seem like the best way. If it’s just acceptable, I’d like to know.

Any advice helps, especially from those who are in the field and have experience with job-hunting for cooking positions. I really want this job, more than anything, please help!

about two weeks ago i broke my fibia and tibia. i had to have surgery, put the rods or screws in. i have this big metal thing thats freaky lookin on my lower leg now. they sent me home with crutches. we asked a dr if it was ok to go out, he was quiet and said just gott keep this up. (leg elevated) but he didnt seem to be the brightest doctor. he was one of the newer guys , an orthepedist for a few years probably. my mom talked to another dr when we had called in. he said ” she should not be going out until those rods our out”. soooo i hate tv, i HATE staying in. its the SUMMER. i look forward to this summer the whole friggin year. unfortunately im up two flights of stairs, but i go down them on my butt pretty much.. when i go out, i put my leg up.. my question is, is this stalling my recovery if im leaving the house? im really overdoing it, lke today i went to church, then the pool, then ate at a restaurant..then went to my friends house tonight and watched tv. ( with my leg up) that was obviousally a bit to much i suppose. so is this staloling my recovery or is there just more of a chance of an accident possibly happening like a fal, that would and could obviousally lead to permanent leg problems if i fell on it hard.

Im 16 years old and I have a feeling my aunt(s) may be prejudice.

Back Story: So my aunts grew up in I don’t know the 60’s or something in a small town in the middle of Georgia and I’m able to understand that they probably have went through alot on the matter of racism. I probably wouldn’t even know about my aunts ugly ways if my mother wouldn’t have died. After her death I was raised by my father and with the help of my aunts and since then I’ve started to realize how they actually are, and it truly bothers me.

One aunt in particular, is, how I see it, the worst of them [even worst Im closest to her so i here the things she says all the time] She’s been that way so long I cant even remember how I first noticed she was prejudice

Example 1: My cousin and I were eating dinner at the table with my aunt eating dinner, when my cousin decided to tempt my aunt by bringing up the subject of race.We decided to tease her about bringing home white boys and dating them [ oh yah, Im black so uh yah..continues..] and she just continued to tell us not to and changed the subject. Until my cousin asked my aunt what she would do if she married a white man, my aunt then gave us one of those looks she gives us and simply said she wouldn’t come to her wedding.

Example 2: We recently attended a family cruise, my dad couldn’t make it due to work, I had to ride down to Florida with my aunts. On our way we stopped by a restaurant to rest and grab a bite. While walking in my cousin handed me a tray with cups that were fulled to the rim and i jokingly began to complain about how heavy the tray was. When a nice young white waitress asked if I needed any help with my tray, I gave her my tray and she lead me to the table. The dinner went on when I noticed my drink was getting low, just then the polite waitress came by and refilled my glass. By the end of our lunch or whatever it came time to put down a tip. My aunt put down $15 but she look a bit hesitant. She said to my other aunt she wanted to make sure the black waitress [we also had a black waitress] was able to get the tip, she even began talking about giving the tip to the black watress herself. This is when I spoke up. I said the black waitress and the white waitress were BOTH working hard I even metioned what the white waitress did for me. I continued to complain when she finally said she hould split it $10 for the black waitress $5 for the white. I wa so disgusted I walked away. Later I caughtmy aunt giving the black waitress all the tip personally. I felt to bad for the other waitress and I was so upset that everyone was treating this as if it was normal. I complained to my cousin how I thought I felt like I was going insane.

Example 3: Before the boarding the cruise ship I noticed a cute white guy with tattoos. I ouldnt stop looking because I thought he was so adorable. My cousins and I were hanging out around the cruise ship when we came across the basketball court were we saw a few guys playing. The guy with the tattoos was also playing. We decided to sit and watch. The next day we went again but this time to the actual court. My cousins began to play around with the boys being my shy self I sat back and watched. I couldnt help but feel the boy with tattoos looking at me but I just rushed the feeling off thinking he wouldnt want to mess with someone like myself haha. The next day my cousins began to complain about how they wanted to tan and me being me I wanted to stay away from the sun as much as possible, so due to my boredom I went to to cruise dock just above the basket ball court to watch the guys play, and of course as you would’ve guessed the boy with the tattoos was there. I watched their game but also glance over at him from time to time. When I saw him look up at me and smile. I instantly blushed and curled up into my shell haha. He contined to play and we continued to trade stares. He then dissappered. I looked for him but he was gone. I then left and went to check up on my cousins. They were laughing as usual but then they told me they told my aunt that I was off messing with some white guy and how upset she got. I laughed it off and we joked about how my aunt was going to flip out when she saw me…

Example 3 continued…: I went back upstiars to the dock were I saw the guy with tattoos sitting in my spot. I quickly turned around because one I was to flipping shy and two I was afaid one of my family members catching us hanging out. So I decided to go back to my aunts room with my cousins were my aunt was freaking out, she began to question me and give me funny looks, my aunts friend who i supose didnt know her to well began to ask why it was a big deal, anyways I told my aunt that my cousins were only joking.

Example 4: It was the night of the ships big party and me and my cousins wanted to hang out and watch them set up. Some of my other aunts stopped by and began to ask us if we could do something
some got cut off ignore the last example..FUCK YUU YAHOO!!! anyways questions basically how can I stop them from their annoying ways??

There’s a really great pizzaria in my city. They make the best Naple’s style pizza. A meal there is never a slice, it’s always anti pesto, some cured meats, wine, a thin pizza, and tiramisu at the end. Always. Meals typically reach $60 per person, so definitely not a greasy spoon. The first few times I ate there, I picked up the pizza by hand as I always do, and chowed down, but the last two, I followed my dates lead and everyone else at the restaurant, and eat with a knife and fork. Is it that wrong to eat Naples style pizza with your hands? Or is it more proper to eat with a knife and fork?

Background: She recently moved from Italy to the United States. She is 25 years old; I am also 25 years old.

Option 1: A movie, then dinner - We would watch the new Karate Kid movie, then go to a nice Japanese or steak restaurant. After, I would move in for a kiss — then possibly get a hotel room (depending on the circumstances that follow).

Option 2: Disneyland — which is only 20 minutes away. Then after, I would move in for a kiss — then possibly take her to a hotel room at the end of the night.

Option 3: A movie, dinner, then taken her on a flight on a small, private plane (I am also a pilot). Then after, I would move in for a kiss — then, if circumstances permit, I will lead her to the back seat of my automobile in the airport parking lot (where it is nice and dark).
I am a 25 year old virgin whose never been on a date.

Why?

I don’t know exactly.

But I feel lucky this time around!

Help me out a little — this is only intended to be a simple innocent question: Why?
Anytime I leave the house ~ to go to work, the gym, the grocery store, a restaurant ~ I get looked at, stared at, gawked at, yelled at, whistled at (the list goes on) … all the time. Everywhere! All I can do is just smile and go about my business, merely because I don’t know what else to do about it! Guys always drop things, knock things over, run into things, spill things… I even caused a fender-bender once when I was walking in a parking lot!!!
Although I can see the humor in such things, I feel absolutely terrible to be causing such trouble around town. I don’t do anything out of the ordinary.To be completely honest, I lead a very simple & rather boring life. Once in while, I wonder what exactly I am doing that seems to be so interesting to others, but I just can’t figure it out. At 25, I have never had a boyfriend, and I really don’t get asked out. I am 5′2″ and definitely not a supermodel LOL — so I need to know why these things happen every day? Why do guys do these crazy things around me? I would never want to make guys nervous: there’s no reason to be. If they would just talk to me, they would find out I am a nice person! Help — I am being serious here. I would love for somebody to fill me in — Why? Why? Why?
I really don’t want anyone to think that I am arrogant, because I am not — Never been into myself at all. Honestly, my time has always been spent focusing on other people! I just observe what goes on around me & merely wondered why? (I realize there is no good way to ask this sort of question)
I don’t have experience with dating… maybe some guys could help me out?

This broiler uses two drawers that cooks meat with radiant electric elements. Can cook burgers, steaks, chicken, fish in it. I have searched all night tonight and cannot come up with it. Can anyone help? It is not a large unit. Fits on a table top. Probably 36″-42″ Wide by 24″ -30′ tall. Thanks for your help with this.

I told my english teacher about my future hoping to write a book, so to see if im good she told me to write one that expresses me and that will be half my grade ! so please tell me whats wrong with it ? i feel like theres something missing. hopefully if its good enough ill publish it someday.

Tonight I was feeling more aggravated than ever. What people put me through doesn’t seem to run through their mind, obviously they just think about themselves. I’m probably over exaggerating when I say I wish my family could drop dead or just leave out of town for good. I swear on that.
Outside, the air felt musky and warm as if it just finish raining, it really didn’t give me fresh air. The air I was desperately needing at the moment. The pond I was sitting by calmed me down a bit, it always did. When these trees surround me I’m no longer in Clover Park, it becomes my own personal meadow. Every time I’m here I feel like I can concur the world and do what I please. I jumped up from the sound of a thud coming near my way. Maybe I was being followed. But who in the world would be following me at this late hour ?
I snatched the nearest branch that was next to me and hovered over to a tree for cover. Just before I was going to attack, I caught a glimpse of a guy. He didn’t look like he was going to attack at all, he looked wary and depress starring down at the cold ground. He wasn’t aware of my presence until he looked up at me in shock, poor guy looked like he hadn’t slept for days.” wait, please ! Don’t hit me! ” he pleaded.” Uh-uh, well. ” just then the moonlight shinned upon his face, this boy was gorgeous, drop dead beautiful. His black hair went perfect with his dark skin. But what I loved most of all was his green eyes. A angel I’d never thought about or thought I would see.” I’m really, really sorry! ” I muttered. ” I didn’t mean to scare you. You see I was just, ” I paused just then, he was looking at me smiling. ” Don’t worry about it. It’s fine. You just caught me off guard. ” I felt blood rush to my cheeks and looked away from him. In a matter of seconds it started pouring. I turned to look at his expression, but he was just starring at me. His eyes were locked into mine. His face was serious and dull-like , I can see curiosity hit him. We stared at each other for what felt like forever. Neither one of us looked away.
The cold rain dripped down my cheeks and soaked my hair. If I don’t leave now I’m going to be worse than sick by tonight. I turned my back on him, which must’ve been rude, but he wasn’t talking anyway. I walked out of the forest and toward the public bathroom. Damn it, I forgot it was closed at this late hour. Where the hell am I suppose to go now ? ” Hey, wait. ” The stranger said just a few feet behind me. ” I no a restaurant you can go to for now until the rain stops, doesn’t seem like you want to go home. ”
I turned around, is my expression that obvious ? ” No, home isn’t the place for me right now. But I’ll only be interested in your offer if you join me. ” I said with a polite smile. I really didn’t like being in restaurants without someone with me. Look at the bright side on this ugly, Friday night. I’m soaked, frustrated ( not as much as before ) and hungry. But then again … I happened to meet a handsome guy, who’s sweet ( as far as I know ) and generous. My night with him might end well, but what happens when I get home ?