My parents are divorced I’m an only child and I think my father might be gay??

He has this very close friend who’s a guy and they text all the time. sometimes he calls my dad late at night while he’s lying in bed and they talk for a long time.. they ALWAYS text and I’ve checked my dad’s phone.. that guy (let’s call him Byron) sends him texts like “Hey loved one, I miss you so much… love you can’t wait to see you”
He always asks question about me and I’ve never even met him..I asked my father why is he so interested in me and he said he’s dying to see me and that they are very close friends and Byron’s a really funny guy but it’s still didn’t answer my question. Byron is always updated and knows where we are because they always talk. We once went to the movies and Byron sends a text if we’re home already and how was the movie. We went to a restaurant - same thing.

WHAT THE FUCK?

I’m 14 years old and a girl I have nothing against homosexuals but I just don’t get it?? please help.
This is NOT funny
Is it supposed to bother me? Because it doesn’t I don’t even care. WTF?!?!?!?! plus I don’t think I have the courage to confront him about it. And if he is gay then what am I??!!!!!?? I can’t believe this…..

Restaurant that’s late night or 24 hour and relatively cheap nearest woodland hills, California 91302. I’m so hungry, please help

ok, so this is VERY vague, and I realise there is slim chance of anyone actually knowing the movie I’m referring to from the little information my memory will allow me to provide you, but…..

sometime in the last 10 years (lol) I watched an asian comedy movie on SBS late one night. If I had to guess, which I do, I’d say it was made in the 80’s. The few details I can remember are that it was about a man who was unhappily (possibly arranged?) married to a horrible woman with an equally horrible family, whom he lived with during his marriage, and I think worked in a restaurant kitchen owned/operated by them. He was kind’ve bumbling and unlucky… leading to funny situations… usually miserable for him. From there, all I can sort of remember is that I think to get away from the wife & her family he went on some whacky adventure which maybe saw him in some kind of tree house/hut type thing in Africa with some of his buddies??

If by some sheer bolt of brilliance any of this I’ve described rings any bells for anyone, sounds even remotely familiar to a film you know of, could you PLEASE tell me it’s name so I can find this movie? Thanks for any help KUDOS

I have been seeing a guy for the past 9 months. We met at work, he was the one asking me out… We went out in Dec, everything started quite rosy. Though i did not know about his history with weed and his failure of relationship with his son’s Mum. I do not know the bottom line, but he started smoking pot in January.He used to before that, but said he hadn’t touched it for about a year. Before that he would drink a bottle of Champagne most nights, and i began to notice after he changed his behaviour and was getting pissed till he was unconscious.. He doesn’t look like the decadent type..he doesnt look or dress like it. He lives in a plain 1 bed flat.

We have had on an off arguments, down to his behaviour. Although we make up and things are rosy again, until the next time we arrange to meet, he suddenly does a disappearing act, or completly try’s to avoid me. We make plans to do something on a Friday night, come Friday he’s calling me in the morning to tell me he wants to take a rain-check, as he has had late nights every night.. and wants to be on his own and shut himself out. I was so mad as we arranged to go for sushi, and the day before he was all for it. He does this to me every time.. it’s not once or twice. I figure out it is the Marijuana, and i don’t know if he is still in love with his ex, or i guess depressed by her. He even told me once he sometimes wishes he could “shag her. But says he is not in love, but she is the mother of his child. This upset me, not the fact he may want to be back with her, but for actually telling me. Although i keep trying to understand, and be on his side. As I know he said he has been going through a tough time. I think he doesn’t know how to move on.. He said he was going through a Mid Life crisis.

Since he cancelled me this Friday, i have not called him back or text. I was upset and at the time. So i said to him “suit yourself!”.. and i put the phone down. I had urges to text him how annoyed i was but i didn’t.
I have cooled down. And have had thoughts, that yes he is addicted to his Marijuana..obviously as he does it every night. He even left last Saturday morning to fly to Amsterdam, to bring some back. He was so keen as if he knew what he was doing. I don’t know if i want to see him any more.. although i can’t help care for him and worry. I wish I could help him, to help him get better. Though i know perhaps me trying to help will probably make him smoke more!

The unfortunate thing is i have loving feelings for him. Although one moment we’re fine and just seeing each other, kissing, making love etc… Then the next, he turns into this person i cannot understand. He told me he lost his laptop this week.. he does things when he is really out of it or stressed going through a manic period, like park his car in town, and forgets he parked it and walks home..

He said he is manic depressed, to me, this is why i feel sorry for him too and i haven’t just dumped him like any other guy. Though i love him.. but he always makes excuses, which are not normal. It seems normal tasks are such a struggle and he is all stressed..

He is also going to do Ayahusca in a couple of months. He has thought about it for a long time - to heal himself. He knows he has to sometime. But he is not willing to move on or make a change except feel sorry for himself. He has done for years as he broke up 7 years ago.

Please help or any kind advise would be useful..How can i help him? or should i just “stuff” him and never see him again..or move on. As for me i kinda miss his company when we have got on well..even though im ready to move away from him after all the excuses he makes the same reasons.. excuses for not texting, not seeing my call. Even last Friday night, we went for dinner and we were dancing with other couples to the guy singing in the restaurant.??!!??

I was happy to just see him, nothing to serious.. we were just seeing each other, but i got to know him, especially i have known him for nearly 2 years now as we worked at the same office. Now i have changed job. To be honest, because i couldn’t face being upset seeing him every day at work, with his behaviour.. especially he going hot one day then cold and hidden the next.

I got a call to schedule an interview today but I wasn’t home and I didn’t get the message until late that night after the restaurant closed. Is it really really bad that I didn’t call them back today? I’m really worried! And I can’t call back until after school tomorrow..
I’m 16 years old and it was for Ruby’s Diner.

I live next to a restaurant that plays loud music late at night. The only thing between us is an empty parking lot for the business with no physical barrier. Is there anything we can do to keep them from playing their music so loud at all hours of the night?

I want to be on good terms with the owner as he seems like a nice guy, but want to anonymously have him realize that its a bit noisy and maybe he should just turn it down. Are businesses obligated to play music up to a certain point and do they need to prepare their establishment to keep noise at a reasonable level?

Driving me crazy

So, I’m completely dedicated to what I do. And I love doin’ what I love, redundant sounding, yes, but true? Completely. Im 16, and I already know that I wanna become a pastry chef. Im very ambitious and to me, thats a great thing. My ultimate goal is to have a killer pastry restaurant where groups can come in and just have a great time, and chill. Breakfast, lunch, and late night snacking. Almost like a massive bistro/cafe. Very contemporary, and cozy. My plan of attack is to get my bachelors degree in business, and my associates in Patisserie andbaking. Obvi, they dont have many bachelors degrees souly on baking and pastry. Anyway, Im talkin the works. Wedding cakes, specialty cakes, Upscale dishes, the ultimate “wow” factor, that the average person can go to. So what do you thing? is it a good plan?

Here is the situation: My boyfriend and I are going to be spending a lot of time working for the next month, maybe 2 months. We’re talking like like 80-90 hours a week. But the main thing is that this is also going to involve lots of weird hours, pulling all nighters, working through standard meal times, that kind of thing. This started this week and I’m a little confused how to deal with the seemingly basic problem of feeding myself.

Some info: We live in a European city where eating out regularly is not really an option. It’s very expensive. Also, we will (with the long work hours) be working well after things (restaurants, grocery stores) have already closed. So we can go to the grocery store maybe 1-2 times a week. We’d like to eat at least kind of healthy. I don’t want to feel ashamed if my mother asks me what I had for dinner. Our fridge and freezer (especially freezer) are small. The reason I mention where we live is that when I lived in America this was easy. There are late night restaurants/fast food joints, grocery stores are open late, convenience items are a lot easier to come by (decent frozen meals available even at regular grocery stores), and I had a comparatively massive fridge and freezer. But now I don’t have those options, so I don’t know what to do.

I guess what I am looking for here is a sort of novel solution about the food problem. I mean, we do have to eat. But it literally feels like there is no time, not just for preparation, but for actual purchase of food as well.

What do you do to avoid cooking? Any specific meals that you turn to? Or do you have a good system of avoiding cooking? I thought about freezing meals but our freezer is small and we basically have 1 day off. I don’t want to spend it slaving together in the kitchen to generate food for the rest of the week. I would love ideas on at least somewhat healthy meals that can be made in less than 20 mins without a ton of chopping or shopping. 1 pot-bowl-plate meals also appreciated, since it’s fewer things to wash. We’re not picky eaters.

And if you have some tips on keeping the apartment reasonably tidy you can throw those in as well.

Oh, and I would really appreciate strategies or meals that you’ve actually tried, not just a recipe off the internet!

Hi everyone. I was wondering if I can lose some weight by living my days like this….everyday i get up i go eat a restaurant than I go work. I’m a real estate agent. Then I would drive people around to look at houses or sit in my office. I have no time to exercise. Then afterwork (late at night) I go eat with my partner that works with me. Everyday is like this. Can I even lose weight? If i cut out sugary drinks. chips, fried food, etc?

Weight:117
Height : 5′4

Thanks.
because my stomach is huge, no kidding.