Open Question: HELP! (20 years old) I think I am trapped with a sociopath & I am VERY scared. serious answers please.?
Friday, March 5th, 2010detailed story::
everyone please help i need someone to talk to i think he might hurt me
So when i graduated from high school, ALL of the friends went away for college, i went to community college. I was sad, and started working at this restaurant. my first day i met a guy, it was also his first day, and we hit it off perfectly. in the matter of weeks we became BEST FRIENDS. we were inseparable. literally every free moment i had was spent with him. we had so much fun. and he was really funny, cute, and charming.
he was a senior that year, so i got to meet alot of his friends, and everyone loved him, and he had every girl chasing him for his attention. so eventually as time went on, i developed a crush on him. and it seemed liked he liked me too, even thou i suspected he was bisexual/gay. but the more we hung the more i thought he was straight.
he would take me out to eat everyday, gave me gifts, and made me feel so special. however i noticed that he treated everyone else around him bad. especially his family. and he used ppl.
so i thought that he spent so much time with me cuz he liked me, however one day he told me even thou he knew alot of ppl that i was the only friend he ever had.
well soon, i discovered he shoplifted often, and he got me into it. i knew my parents had plenty of money and i didnt need to steal, but i saw how he would still literally thousands of dollars of stuff without ever getting caught. i mean out the mall, high end stores like saks, nordstroms, nemian marcus, target. i knew it was wrong, but we did it so much i never thought about gettin caught.
well eventually we did, and we went to jail, i had been stopped months before, and he didnt do around me anymore. but he did that day and. we went to jail. and he never even said sorry.
i forgave him, i couldnt stay mad at him, i was sooo in love with him. he was the first boy i trusted in years. he would tell me that he wanted to marry me and this stuff. and it seemed lik he was serious.
but he never asked me out. we spent everyday together and he never even kissed me, we would hold hands but thats it. but we never talked about it, to me it seemd lik actions spoke louder than words
i noticed that he was using everyone around. and he didnt care about anybody feelings.
he has a rough home life. his parents still together, married, living together. but the daddy cheats and has who knows how many kids. and the momma girlfriend spends the night everyday.
the aunt, grandma, his younger sister (she is bipolar), mother, are all gay. and he told me was raped by a family member when he was a child. i think it was man. but he didnt say.
all of his friends always joke and say he is crazy as hell, and be surprised when they here i never seen him fight. turns out he fights all the time and is diagnosed BIPOLAR///(and later on wit multiple personalities) and was medicated for it.
but he wont even argue with me. he also told me that he hates animals. killed his sister rabbit cause she got it around his birthday. and killed his puppy cause it bit him. and killed fish too. and doesnt feel bad.
so i found out that he is gay. and i ask him, he denies, but i seen pictures and text on his ex phone. but he only used the boy for money. he doesnt care about nobody but his self. he tricked the boy to think he was in love with him. and they were soul mates. but he ended up cheating with him wit this boy who goes to my school, which brings me to the problem.
one day him and his dad got into a bad fight. i went to pick him up, and he was bleeding. i am now away to college, and he ended up coming to stay with me. it was suppose to be for a lil bit till he could go back home. but he wouldnt leave. and he basically sucked every penny i had. i got a dollar, i gave him 50 cent or more cause i was sooo in love. but thats when i found out about the first boy. he would take out both of us and pay for me. he was so nice. but a victim.
i mean i just couldnt kick him out, he started treating me bad, and didnt appreciate all i did for him, i mean i even gotten him out of jail during the summer. but i was scared to kick him out, i didnt know why thou. it was lik a lil voice saying dont do it.
i always knew something wasnt right with him, so the other day i looked up antisocial disorder, and realized he fits every single symptom to a T. and not he matches like, well he did this once,.. no everything is just apart of him.
his ex gf got in contact with me trying to warn me to get away. she was tellin me how she waited on him for over and year so i shouldnt waste my time. and i found out he lies about everything. he will take something in someone life and make into his. ex. i askd wat his dad did for a living. he said he worked for sprint. his ex said her dad worked for sprint and he was lying. it was a bunch of stuff lik that
.charm
.con artist- the best ever
.grandiose sense of self-thinks he is a celebrity
.pathological
i’m sorry i guess that my thing was too long and did put everything.
he lives with me at my apartment at school. and if i kick him out he wont have anywhere to go. semester doesnt end till may. so im stuck there till then. im scared to death to kick him out cause he knows how to break into my room. and he knows where i live and where my parents work. he might try to tear up my car or something. or try to kill me. im scared he might hurt me