Posts Tagged ‘Hey’

Open Question: I think my dad is gay?

Sunday, February 5th, 2012

My parents are divorced I’m an only child and I think my father might be gay??

He has this very close friend who’s a guy and they text all the time. sometimes he calls my dad late at night while he’s lying in bed and they talk for a long time.. they ALWAYS text and I’ve checked my dad’s phone.. that guy (let’s call him Byron) sends him texts like “Hey loved one, I miss you so much… love you can’t wait to see you”
He always asks question about me and I’ve never even met him..I asked my father why is he so interested in me and he said he’s dying to see me and that they are very close friends and Byron’s a really funny guy but it’s still didn’t answer my question. Byron is always updated and knows where we are because they always talk. We once went to the movies and Byron sends a text if we’re home already and how was the movie. We went to a restaurant - same thing.

WHAT THE FUCK?

I’m 14 years old and a girl I have nothing against homosexuals but I just don’t get it?? please help.
This is NOT funny
Is it supposed to bother me? Because it doesn’t I don’t even care. WTF?!?!?!?! plus I don’t think I have the courage to confront him about it. And if he is gay then what am I??!!!!!?? I can’t believe this…..

Open Question: Did I say something rude, inappropriate, or annoying to make him ignore me?

Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

sometimes I’m a bit socially oblivious, and I’m also very nice/sweet of a person sometimes to the ppl I care for till the point where it might seem a little weird or overboard :/ .. and where ppl sometimes take it the wrong way. so there’s a guy that I’m not superclose to, but we’ve gone out w mutual friends before and helped him w his problems. facebook told me it was bday, and since he treated us out to fastfood once, I thought id wish him a happy birthday and offer to take him out.. and I’ve been initiating planning it out w him. I think I finally drew the last straw when I asked him…

[texting]

me: hey john! :) is this Tuesday still okay with you?
john: Hey, yeah Tuesday is good. I won’t be free until 5 though.
me: yeah that’s fine, just wanted to doublecheck if Tuesday was okay for u or if u preferred to pick another day. So this might be kinda weird of me to ask since I’m supposed to be the one driving if taking u out for ur bday…but since I dont have a car, would it be okay if you picked me up? :) john: Lol yeah I’ll drive. I just have to remember to wake up tomorrow to go renew my license.
me: lol gotcha, waiting at the dmv always sucks :( thnx for driving :) soo was there any restaurant or place that u wanted to go?

but then he ignored my txt.. I feel like I went too far and im a little hurt and embarrassed. did i say something rude or socially inappropriate w/out knowing it? :/
should i buy him a little gift for his motorcycle too to make up for it if i did do something rude/inappropriate? (keep in mind that we’re not super close, but I do know that he likes biking b/c he’s told me he goes biking and his facebook has pictures and stuff of it….but i really dont want to come off as a creep or someone thats being tooooo nice/giving till the point where its weird)

Open Question: Best restaurant in downtown atlanta?

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Hey, I’m Staying in downtown Atlanta for 2 days and I would like to have an awesome dinning experience while there. Does anyone know or been to any place that has amazing food and a great experience/atmosphere swell. Money really is not a factor bc im only coming here once and I probably won’t stroll through here again. So any suggestions? Thanks everyone.

Open Question: i am so weirded out by the idea of having sex. but i want to try it, help!?

Sunday, January 29th, 2012

im weirded out by the idea, the moment that i will have sex for the 1st time. im 21. the only possible explanation to me is that when i was about 1, my mom’s physcho uncle kinda forced himself on me. OR that i have been treated like a little kid my whole life. i have researched it online, and hey, it seems interesting. definetly different. but i am so scared of the moment that i will have to… pull down my pants or something. haha.
i’ve been getting close with this guy that i work with for over a year, he is so perfect for me. we are bf/gf, i guess….. but our relationship is totally on the downlow. we tell each other i love you and all that. we are coworkers at a restaurant, he’s a cook & im a waitress. he’s 27. he’s never pressured me into anything.
2 nights ago when we went out, he said he wanted to ask me something but he didnt want me to think i was a type of dude that he isn’t. i told him i wouldn’t get mad, and it took him a minute but he finally asked me if i have ever had sex…. i told him im a virgin. well anyways, we were just talking, and he asked if i was afraid of him, and i told him no, i wasn’t. and then that lead to maybe. he asked if i was afraid because ive never done it before and i said i guess… i told him im not like the virgin mary like, i have to someday. and i do want to. he told me that he wants to, whenever I am ready, like, he’s not going to ever make me do anything. I said thats cool. After we were chilling in my car, he wanted out of my car and it was kinda cold outside, so we couldn’t do anything. it was late. he got a hotel room for like 2 hours and we didn’t do anything but make out, lay down and just talk…. all he did really was slip his hand under the back of my shirt. haha.
anyways, my question is, i am in love with him as i will ever be. i can NEVER stop thinking about him. and for the first time ever, i love going to work just because i get to talk to him more and see him there. i think he is the perfect guy for me. How come I am not ready to have sex with him yet?? I know he has always been really respectful to me, and he is definetly not a virgin, so yeah, i do want to. I just can’t work up the courage to say I am ready…………… help? lol

Open Question: Living In Canada..help?

Friday, January 20th, 2012

Hey, three of my friends and I are wanting to go live and work somewhere in BC or AB, we’ve done some research and Banff seems pretty appealing to us. All up there will be four of us, all males, aged 18/19 from New Zealand. We are wanting to go to Canada about October, November next year for ski season. Is this a good time to arrive? We don’t want to miss out on ski season, because we’re keen snowboarders. We want to work for a few months then travel around BC and AB for a couple of months as well. We realise its expensive so were saving now but thats why were hoping to get jobs. We will probably take any job we can get, but working at a skifield, bar, hotel etc would be great. Any tips on applying for jobs? Should we go to Banff first and try and apply for jobs or send a resume to some places before we leave? Also what sort of accommodation is there is Banff? We’re looking for a room or small house preferably for four of us. A cheap place, we’re not looking for luxury haha. What would living costs be like?

Any other information about Banff would be great. Whats the nightlife like? What sort of shops, bars, restaurants are in Banff? We’re also keen to get out and do some hiking around the area, Lake Louise etc. Any tips would be appreciated. Thanks heaps Alex

Open Question: Need to find all the cool spots in Houston and Austin?

Saturday, January 7th, 2012

Hey. I’m heading to Houston this labor day weekend and i’m bringing my girlfriend with me. I dont know anything abouth the place but here’s what i’m looking for. I’m orginally from New York City and am looking for the same kind of lifestyle down in Austin and Houston.

I love love hole in the wall restaurants and shops

Really trendy restaurants like the Stanton Social in NY

Modern Art museums

Very cool bars and lounges

Can someone please tell me where these kind of places are? Thanks

Open Question: What kinds of jobs are available at a ski resort?

Wednesday, December 28th, 2011

Hey so I was thinking of trying to get hired with a ski resort for the winter season. I am not sure what types of jobs there are on the mountain, and I’m looking for suggestions for ones I haven’t thought of yet.

So far I can think of the following:

Ski instructor
Restaurant
Rental shop
Lift ticket window
Lift operator
various office jobs
ski patrol

Anything else I might have missed? I’m looking for something cool :D
Thanks

Open Question: what is the perfect gift? ideas.. Thank you?

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Hey!.. So I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we soon will be married. He is 23. His birthday is coming up soon and I need the perfect gift ideas. but please not a wallet, watch, shirts, psp, or perfume I have already gave him all that as gifts basically lol, I want this birthday of his to be realllyy awesome. Im in NY so im thinking to take him to a really nice restaurant so we can eat or something? but also I dont know what to gift him. help please
sorry a type mistake * i meant he is 23 years old!

Open Question: what is the perfect gift. ideas thanks?

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Hey!.. So I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 23 years and we soon will be married. He is 23. His birthday is coming up soon and I need the perfect gift ideas. but please not a wallet, watch, shirts, psp, or perfume I have already gave him all that as gifts basically lol, I want this birthday of his to be realllyy awesome. Im in NY so im thinking to take him to a really nice restaurant so we can eat or something? but also I dont know what to gift him. help please
wopz I meant we have been together for 3 years * lol not 23..

Open Question: perfect gift for boyfriend?

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Hey!.. So I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we soon will be married. He is 23. His birthday is coming up soon and I need the perfect gift ideas. but please not a wallet, watch, shirts, psp, or perfume I have already gave him all that as gifts basically lol, I want this birthday of his to be realllyy awesome. Im in NY so im thinking to take him to a really nice restaurant so we can eat or something? but also I dont know what to gift him. help please

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