My boyfriend and I are going out of state to a casino resort, we have a long distance relationship and we only see each other for the weekend every two weeks.
I am 22 and hes 23.
We have never been to this resort before and we are definitely going to do some exploring, gambling, and some fine restaurant dining.
But we are getting a hotel room for one night and its going to be our first time together in an intimate setting, alone
We are not ready for sex, so im ruling that out..i think it would be too soon and we both agreed we dont want our relationship to become all about sex and thats what hes worried about if we do that too soon. Im a virgin, and he thinks its not the right time, even though we love eachother very much.
But i still want it to be romantic and memorable for both of us, and make us fall even more in love with each other than we already are.
We agreed on doing candles, and a bubble bath for two, some wine, (again no sex) and then some cuddling in the bed. maybe watch a movie?
I was also going to wear sexy lingerie while we are making out or cuddling.
what else is there to do that would surprise him since he already knows about the candles and bath?
Should i do rose petals on the bed? and what should we do first the bath or the bed? and should i even bother with the lingerie since were going to do the bath?

im so CONFUSED!!! We dont get to do this often and i dont know what to do to make it flow? like get in the bubble bath then the bed or undress eachother or what?

AND THIS IS IMPORTANT!!!
Do hotels allow candles??? do you think if i called someone at the hotel they would set up the candles or the rose petals? i feel like it wouldnt be that surprising if he saw me doing this and drawing the bath haha.
Dont the hotels usually do it for wedding nights?

help and advice is much appreciated thanks in advance!!

im black and hes into rock music and concerts etc. very very different! what should i talk to him about! and BTW we work in a fast food restaurant so lots of walking. pick up lines, jokes and everything in between welcome! thanks to all

have been dating him for a month and a half he is 24 and im 23.
he works from 11am-10pm at his families restaurant but spends about half the time in the office on his computer and managing the teens at the counters. he gets 2 days off a week and one half day. never once have we hung out during his days off. the only time we do hang out is at 11pm on the days he works after he gets home and showers. we usually just eat candy, talk and have sex. i cant even have a conversation with him because hes to tired to talk. then when i complain about not seeing him during the DAYLIGHT hours he says “you’re selfish i force myself to stay awake to hang out with you at night because i love you and want to see you”. we were supposed to hang out on the 4th of july he wanted me to go to his families cookout and fireworks then he ended up going into boston to smoke weed and party on his friends roof deck. rather than watch fireworks with his gf. Boston is a little over an hour away and he invited me knowing that id miss the fireworks while i was driving and knowing that i dont like to be around weed/pills. i have several guy friends who are single and said they would love to have had a girl to spend the holiday with my BF had me and chose to blow me off and only text and say “i miss you” and send me a picture of his view and not even call. i texted him and said i was headed to the beach 20 minutes away from my house to watch the fireworks and all his responses from that text forwards were either “yup” or yeaa” so i asked him if all he says is “yup” and he replied “yup” being sarcastic. i havent heard a word from him since that was sunday night at 9pm and here it is 12:15 am on tuesday….i tried calling tonight at 10 and 10:30 and sent 2 texts saying we need to talk and got no response. today he only worked lunch at the restaurant…his house is 20 min away i drove by and his car was there. do u think he uses me?

i have been dating him for a month and a half he is 24 and im 23.
he works from 11am-10pm at his families restaurant but spends about half the time in the office on his computer and managing the teens at the counters. he gets 2 days off a week and one half day. never once have we hung out during his days off. the only time we do hang out is at 11pm on the days he works after he gets home and showers. we usually just eat candy, talk and have sex. i cant even have a conversation with him because hes to tired to talk. then when i complain about not seeing him during the DAYLIGHT hours he says “you’re selfish i force myself to stay awake to hang out with you at night because i love you and want to see you”. we were supposed to hang out on the 4th of july he wanted me to go to his families cookout and fireworks then he ended up going into boston to smoke weed and party on his friends roof deck. rather than watch fireworks with his gf. when i have several guy friends who are single and said they would love to have had a girl to spend the holiday with my BF had me and chose to blow me off and only text and say “i miss you” and send me a picture of his view and not even CALL!!

have been dating him for a month and a half he is 24 and im 23.
he works from 11am-10pm at his families restaurant but spends about half the time in the office on his computer and managing the teens at the counters. he gets 2 days off a week and one half day. never once have we hung out during his days off. the only time we do hang out is at 11pm on the days he works after he gets home and showers. we usually just eat candy, talk and have sex. i cant even have a conversation with him because hes to tired to talk. then when i complain about not seeing him during the DAYLIGHT hours he says “you’re selfish i force myself to stay awake to hang out with you at night because i love you and want to see you”. we were supposed to hang out on the 4th of july he wanted me to go to his families cookout and fireworks then he ended up going into boston to smoke weed and party on his friends roof deck. rather than watch fireworks with his gf. when i have several guy friends who are single and said they would love to have had a girl to spend the holiday with my BF had me and chose to blow me off and only text and say “i miss you” and send me a picture of his view and not even CALL!!

have been dating him for a month and a half he is 24 and im 23.
he works from 11am-10pm at his families restaurant but spends about half the time in the office on his computer and managing the teens at the counters. he gets 2 days off a week and one half day. never once have we hung out during his days off. the only time we do hang out is at 11pm on the days he works after he gets home and showers. we usually just eat candy, talk and have sex. i cant even have a conversation with him because hes to tired to talk. then when i complain about not seeing him during the DAYLIGHT hours he says “you’re selfish i force myself to stay awake to hang out with you at night because i love you and want to see you”. we were supposed to hang out on the 4th of july he wanted me to go to his families cookout and fireworks then he ended up going into boston to smoke weed and party on his friends roof deck. rather than watch fireworks with his gf. when i have several guy friends who are single and said they would love to have had a girl to spend the holiday with my BF had me and chose to blow me off and only text and say “i miss you” and send me a picture of his view and not even CALL!!

ok so my boyfriend and i had a baby six months ago, just last month we finally got a place of our own, we didnt want to rush anything bc we had only been together a year. anyway long story short, we finally decided it was time to move in together and things have been great, until recently. i had to quit my job bc i worked ina different town. my bf was understanding about it bc he knew it was ridiculous for me to spend so much time driving back and forth. he told me hed take care of the bills while i looked for another job. well here we are three weeks later and still nothing, i swear i have applied everywhere in town! it is hard to finda job right now, i have even applied at fast food restaurants, anything, i just need to be working. i called him an hour ago on his lunch break, he works nights, and he had this pissy attitude, and i asked him what his deal was and he says to me taht he is tired of me doing nothing, and that if something doesnt change quick hes going to kick me out, which is crap, my name is on the lease and i paid all the deposits, not him. anyway, i was like what the hell u know ive been putting in applications every freaking day and trying so hard and he said that it doesnt matter that hes just tired of me doing nothing. well then i got mad, bc i dont do nthing. i take care of the baby day and night by myself bc he works at night and sleeps all day, i clean the house, i do the shopping for the house, i have his dinner ready every night for him before he goes to work, most nights i cant even sit down and eat with him bc im feeding the baby her dinner as well. he helps me with nothing. he never changes a diaper, he never feeds the baby, he wouldnt even watch her for fifteen mins tonight while i ran to return a movie, he made me take her with me bc he was playing a video game. im so pissed by this comment he made of me doing nothing, when i take care of t he house and the baby all the time with no help, and im busting my ass trying to find a job, but what he doesnt understand is that its hard for me to find a job bc i have to work certain hours around his shift bc we dont have a babysitter. honestly right now my first instinct is to tell him to go fuck himself bc him talking to me that way and telling me i do nothing is just ridiculous in my eyes, but im just wondering if maybe im overreacting and i should jsut turn off the phone and cool down bc all i wanna do right now is call him back and tell him to kiss my ass. i understand he is the one working, but he only works eight hours, then he comes home and sleeps for ten, gets up plays video games and goes back to work, so for himt o tell me i do nothing….ugh!!! im so furious!!!

so i cant remember what this anime is called…
its about these i guess(et to there) not sure didnt g guardians who live like normal people and in the beginning of the first episode you see a girl telling a story about this group who protected the king or something sacred, and when she was done she was selling theses sword like spear things, but it didnt go well so she went back to this restaurant like thing ( i guess her home) and she has friends who also tell the story but doesnt…and this guy lives upstairs and he’s one of there friends, but hes like depressed about something….im not sure if im remembering all of it right, but i hope someone can help me….im really confused about this

We’ve been talking over 2 months [flirting, a ton in common, hes opened up about his past] Our timing is bad [both times we arranged a date it backfired] When date 2 failed cos he had to work& I went past the restaurant. He ran after me to apologize like crazy, beg me to meet up with him next weekend, even taking 2 long breaks to hang out with me. I got the sweetest text after that saying how stunning I looked, how he kept thinking about me&couldnt wait to see me.

That was 5 days ago- The last text on monday was tiny saying he would call later but never did [when I called tuesday we laughed a bit but he seemed off] I’m met up with a friend [whose his colleague/room mate, which looks bad but I havent had a chance to tell him about it] I texted on wednesday&didnt get a reply. Thursday night we texted saying we’re still on, I replied&he didnt answer again.
We’re seeing one another in a couple hours- do I bring up the fact hes seemed off if he acts different?

We’ve been talking over 2 months [flirting, a ton in common, hes opened up about his past] Our timing is bad [both times we arranged a date it backfired] When date 2 failed cos he had to work& I went past the restaurant. He ran after me to apologize like crazy, beg me to meet up with him next weekend, even taking 2 long breaks to hang out with me. I got the sweetest text after that saying how stunning I looked, how he kept thinking about me&couldnt wait to see me.
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That was 5 days ago- The last text on monday was tiny saying he would call later but never did [when I called tuesday we laughed but he seemed off] I’m met up with a friend [whose his colleague/room mate, which looks bad but I havent had a chance to tell him about it] I texted on wednesday&didnt get a reply just a confirmation Thursday night saying we’re still on for our date.