Posts Tagged ‘Flirt’

Resolved Question: Was it wrong of me? Was she even worth it?

Sunday, January 8th, 2012

To make a longstory short. There was a woman with a nice body but a not so nice face. She looked much older than her age. She was dating an abusive man who was a criminal. She recently aborted his child. She dresses provocatively and excercised often. Almost like an obssession. i could neverstand still, i suspected drug use? She also looks a little anorexic. I liked her and tried t obe a good guy to her. I listened to her hours and hours of hurt stories about her life. One day her friend met me and everything changed. She started t otreat me differently. I felt very self concious about how she treated me. I told her about it and it and she didnt care. She would often flirt with me sexually. Like lifting her leg up in a restaurant. Yet she told me that she didn’t want to go with me as a bf or anything. She treated me like someone odd and dumped her problems on me. ihelped her a lot but she took me for granted. I tried to explain to her how I felt and how few people would sit and listen to her problems and genuinely care. She still didnt care and had no patience for my feelings. later we had an argumaent. She tried t osay that I was the same as her physically abusive ex bf, who she was still seeing I later learned. As she expressedthat he “gives her love”. We had an exchange of words and I said some really mean thing out of anger to her. but I just got tired of how she treated me. I have no one in my life and it was hard for me to be flirted like that by a woman who had no interest in me. it made me sad, angry and very down on myslef. I felt ugly because she had a so called beautiful body, which peopel commented on all of the time. i recently tried to say sorry to her for the mean things I said out of anger. But she doesnt talk to me any more. She said some really horrible things to me and that is why I let loose. Though I never cursed her, I just told her how I felt. But she made it out like I am the wrost man ever. Even though her ex bf is a criminal, a liar, illiterate and an illegal alien.
And he used all of her money and that of her family. But she still ‘loves’ him. She looks old but thinks she is the most beautiful woman. it makes me sad sometimes but I dont know if i am wrong and just cant see that she was not worth me. or did I lose out on a woman I could have built something with?

Open Question: What do I do about my penis problem?

Tuesday, October 4th, 2011

I’m really starting to think my perversion is out of control. I’m a handsome guy, and in high school, but just dont have the confidence to date girls for very long. I’ll usually take a girl out to a few restaurants and a few movies but then get to nervous to know when to take things to the next level and dump them. and no im not gay lol. But the weird thing is that I have some obsession with girls seeing my penis! I’d get on chat roulette sometimes, and instead of just wacking off like all the other pervs, I’m a smart perv lol. I’ll flirt with the girls while showing my face, and once we start a conversation, I move away from the camera and say ill be right back, then move the camera to showing me holding my penis, so that they know who i am when they see it.. I know extremely weird and perverted… But i’m not like a sexual predator or anything, I dont go out in public and flash people, or rape or anything I’m not an actual creep! I just have some obsession with wanting to show girls my penis… But i don’t know why! I dont even jack off while i show them, I just want them to see it… Please help me with considerate advice.. dont just call me a perv i know that already lol

Open Question: I need a final answer. Does she like me as more than a friend?

Saturday, September 3rd, 2011

Coworker and I were play full with each other. She used to punch me and push me. She said I make her smile. She tries to talk to me at work a lot. She walked by me one day and touched my back and said hey terry berry while smiling…..she didnt say anything else. oh and terry berry is her nickname for me. She always asks for my opinion on stuff.

She always says we should do stuff…..i told her about a new restaurant opening and she said we should go there. Then for no reason she told me to leave her alone because she said i was annoying. We’ve had a few fights but always make up after.

Then she said she doesnt like talking to me. I ask her in person what the reason was and she said i cant tell you that….and she had the biggest smile on her face. and she walked away. I asked her again and she said you’ll never know. i asked if she was lying when she said she didnt like talking to me and she said you’ll never know.

She sent me 2 texts for every one i sent her this one friday night she wanted to talk on msn after work. we both worked 8 hours with each other than she wanted to talk to me on msn and she sent a lot of texts with the smiley face and one with a sad face when she said please be awake…..she sent 3 texts in a row with no response from me twice but then other days she ignores my texts

She recently quit the job and now i havent seen her or texted her in two days she wanted to go on msn again that night but she never did because she left work 2 hours earlier than she told me she would and didnt respond to 1 msg so its been nothing since then……did she just flirt with me at work to pass the time? or does she like me as more than a friend?
in your opinion based on the info presented does she like me?

Open Question: i wanna flirt with this white guy?

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

im black and hes into rock music and concerts etc. very very different! what should i talk to him about! and BTW we work in a fast food restaurant so lots of walking. pick up lines, jokes and everything in between welcome! thanks to all :D

Open Question: Is this a good way to flirt with girls?

Sunday, April 24th, 2011

I work at a restaurant and when a girl I think is cute comes in, I playfully tease her and call her pretty or tell her that she has a cute face or something like that. Is that a good way to flirt with girls or is it lame?

I”m 18 BTW

Open Question: How can I make him mine? I need to use your advice ASAP..?

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

Ok so this guy(27) and I (21) are coworkers in a restaurant he got out last night a little earlier than i did but texted me for the first time in months to hang out. So we got together after I got out and just made out and talked about some stuff.. Nothing serious at all. We have been kinda really close since last summer..
In July, he asked me to be his GF and looking back at it I know that was such an idiotic move of me to say ‘ill have to think about it’ because I was shy! I knew I REALLY wanted to be his GF even back then, but I couldn’t tell him how I really felt about him… Anyways, since then we have been flirting and making out, whatever. We never even hooked up. Whatever. I’m a virgin anyways.
Well my question here is, what can I do? I want to hint at him to ask me out again. I flirt with him so much and I really show a lot of interest in him, I just feel like I am so totally incapable of just going up to him and like, “uhh.. Will you be my boyfriend??” haha.
I just want us to be offical.
Also, why did he suggest that we go out earlier? I mean, I really had a nice time with him and of course I wanted to, but he hasn’t suggested we go out since like.. last September or October. It was so random! And I thought he would ask me out again.. But we just talked about nothing important.

What can I do??! I will see him again tonight… HELP? I REALLY APPRECIATE IT! :)

Open Question: I need guy advice to use tonight.. Please?

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

this guy(27) and I (21) are coworkers in a restaurant. he got out last night a little earlier than i did but texted me for the first time in months to hang out. So we got together after I got out and just made out and talked about some stuff.. Nothing serious at all. We have been kinda really close since like last summer..
In July, he asked me to be his GF and looking back at it I know that was such an idiotic move of me to say ‘ill have to think about it’ because I was shy! I knew I REALLY wanted to be his GF even back then, but I couldn’t tell him how I really felt about him… Anyways, since then we have been flirting and making out. We never even hooked up. I’m a virgin anyways.
Well my question is, what can I do? I want to hint at him to ask me out again. I flirt with him so much and I really show a lot of interest in him, I just feel like I am so totally incapable of just going up to him and like, “uhh.. Will you be my boyfriend??” haha. I just want us to be offical.

Also, why did he suggest that we go out earlier? I mean, I really had a nice time with him and of course I wanted to, but he hasn’t suggested we go out since like.. last September or October. It was random. And I thought he would ask me out again.. But we just talked about nothing important.

What can I do??! I will see him again tonight… I REALLY APPRECIATE IT! :)

Open Question: I need to use your advice, ASAP. Guys?

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

this guy(27) and I (21) are coworkers in a restaurant. he got out last night a little earlier than i did but texted me for the first time in months to hang out. So we got together after I got out and just made out and talked about some stuff.. Nothing serious at all. We have been kinda really close since like last summer..
In July, he asked me to be his GF and looking back at it I know that was such an idiotic move of me to say ‘ill have to think about it’ because I was shy! I knew i wanted to be his GF back then, but I couldn’t tell him how I felt about him… Anyway, since then we have been flirting, making out. We never hooked up. I’m a virgin anyways.
Well my question is, what can I do? I want to hint at him to ask me out again. I flirt with him so much and I really show interest in him, I just feel like I am so totally incapable of just going up to him and, “uhh.. Will you be my boyfriend??” haha. I just want us to be offical.

Also, why did he suggest that we go out earlier? I mean, I really had a nice time with him and of course I wanted to, but he hasn’t suggested we go out since like.. last September or October. It was random. And I thought he would ask me out again.. But we just talked about nothing important. We held hands like the whole time.

What can I do?! I appreciate any help! :)

Open Question: How to “hint” to a guy to get to him to ask you out?

Monday, March 28th, 2011

Well, I admit I am really pathetic haha I am too shy to ask him out,
I already had my chance with him; but lost it.
..When he asked me out last August, I was so damn shocked but I told him I did like him alot, BUT I’d have to think about it.. I don’t know what I was thinking, when he asked me straight out RIGHT THEN.
now, here i am almost a year later, totally fallen for him.
We’re coworkers in a restaurant. today, I will be driving him home from work.. We still make out and flirt, like, a lot. But we’re just not official.
I really don’t want to waste any more time..
HELLPP?!? :) I REALLY APRRECIATE IT!!

Open Question: How should I hint to him to ask me out? (again.)?

Sunday, March 27th, 2011

Well, I admit I am really pathetic haha I am too shy to ask him out,
I already had my chance with him; but lost it.
..When he asked me out last August, I was so damn shocked but I told him I did like him alot, BUT I’d have to think about it.. I don’t know what I was thinking, when he asked me straight out RIGHT THEN.
now, here i am almost a year later, totally fallen for him.
We’re coworkers in a restaurant. today, I will be driving him home from work.. We still make out and flirt, like, a lot. But we’re just not official.
I really don’t want to waste any more time..
HELLPP?!? :) I REALLY APRRECIATE IT!!

Search