Here’s the story: I have known this guy since I was 16 (I am now 19), we met at a Japanese restaurant, my first job. He was the cool server in his early 20’s that everyone liked, and he was always very nice towards me, which is probably why I developed a crush on him to begin with. He told me once that I reminded him of an ex-girlfriend that he foolishly let get away, and told me another time, quite randomly, to never slack on improving my intelligence just because I was pretty, to always keep my mind sharp.
After he eventually quit, we ran into each other on a few random occasions, once in a K-Mart and another time at his new job managing a restaurant. Every time, he always seemed very pleased to see me. My graduation night, a couple of my older friends decided that they wanted me to come to a party of THEIR friends, since it would be my first night getting anything more than tipsy and they wanted to keep a close eye on me (protective little bunch…) He ended up being there, and actually was the one to notice me first and call out to me. He had a girlfriend at the time, but we talked and enjoyed each other company (this included me beating him in beer pong. My friends were proud.)
A few days later, he bumped into my friend at her job, and told her to give me his phone number, So we started texting each other. He told me that his girlfriend decided to go to college out of state and would be gone for 3 years. When I asked him if he was going to try to do long distance or just see what happens, he said the latter. He always mentions how sweet and thoughtful I am, and we even went and hung out together once where we drove around looking for a park for him to take pictures at. We didn’t find any interesting parks, but he did say repeatedly that we had a wonderful and relaxing time. (In fact, later that night, he kept texting me and saying he wished he had invited me to stay longer, for his roommates went out for the night and he was home watching a movie alone)
He doesn’t seem to mind making plans to hang out with just the two if us (though we haven’t actually gotten together since that first time), but he seems to dodge an invitations to hang out with my group of friends. Still, he texts me a good deal, not every day but every few days at least. He’s insinuated me giving him a back massage (”you don’t know anyone who can give me a back massage, do you?”"haha well, my friends boyfriend does that professionally!”"hmm…no good…I wish you knew girls who could give a back massage…”
I read into the signs and to me, it says “he’s interested!”, but then I stop and think…what if I am reading wrong? What if I am just an adorable little girl to him but nothing more? He has also called me “love” on two instances…though I think that is a friendly term to him…”thanks, love”"Good night, love, sweet dreams” What do you think??