Me and my boyfriend in relationship for more than 2 and half yrs. He always be with me at all the hard time in my life. he always be supportive guy. Even,my car accident, he borrow his father car for me to use. We going to engage on next mth. Now both of family frm my side and his side happily preparing for eng. He works as manager in private sector. I had engaged b4 with another guy which my family arraged for me. But aft engege,my family found that, he is a liar…and etc..so they divorce that guy from me.After tat, i met him working place and started to love him. He accept me after i explain what happened for me. All going ok,but he dont want his family know about tis. Now more than2 yrs ready. He started to argue with me. if sometimes consider ok,but always…about anything. Im trying to tolerate with him because i love him more than love myself. if i tell him anything about my worKing place,collegues..he always say..no need to tell me..that ur working place. he dont want listen to me. today is my birthday,he never wish anything. but he know that,today is my birthday..because i see in his phone reminder. His mum, sister alll acll me and wish. Then i ask him tat, do u forget?he said ” how can forget”,i want wait to give u something special.Should i believe him?Yesterday,he take me to restaurant and while i eat,he read my sms in phone telling that,dont disturb me.This is actually for one of my fren who keep on msg me on night.His face turn to red and ask me “why never tell me?”I said, u are tell that dont tell everything and waste the time..so i noneed to tell with you..he argue with me very badly..and suddenly that time, a girl passed by the way..he keep on looking and smile at tat girl. Im really angry,and tell that,its not right looking like that at others.he said,she is young girl(around17-18),and consider sister for him.than argue wit me badly. Now totally i dont like him.I know,he is not that type of guy..but suddenly he behave like that.if i talk anything,he will keep on doing anything and never talk or reply. But everyday will come to meet me. He said everytime he come to me because of love even though we fight like tat. Today, my birthday,i dont want argue wit him..but he tell me that,he will come and pick up me in my office for lunch.But after i wait 20min,i call him, he tell tat,”we meet on evening” now got 2 hours only.so,we cant spend time. its ok,but why not if he call me and let me know about this early?my fren all going lunch ready..now i have no food here.he never think about this all. That day also same, He promised me to go dinner,then…after 2 hour when i call he said that he forgot and back to house ready.i tolerate. Then,everynight we will talk b4 sleep. He never call me at first time. When morning i ask tat,he argue very badly with me..What should i do? I really dont like him.I dont want let my family suffer with my problem.i cant stop my eng because this is second time engagement.But i really hate him.
NO,This is second guy who i met and love.the first one is divorced.

Me and my boyfriend in relationship for more than 2 and half yrs. He always be with me at all the hard time in my life. he always be supportive guy. Even,my car accident, he borrow his father car for me to use. We going to engage on next mth. Now both of family frm my side and his side happily preparing for eng. He works as manager in private sector. I had engaged b4 with another guy which my family arraged for me. But aft engege,my family found that, he is a liar…and etc..so they divorce that guy from me.After tat, i met him working place and started to love him. He accept me after i explain what happened for me. All going ok,but he dont want his family know about tis. Now more than2 yrs ready. He started to argue with me. if sometimes consider ok,but always…about anything. Im trying to tolerate with him because i love him more than love myself. if i tell him anything about my worKing place,collegues..he always say..no need to tell me..that ur working place. he dont want listen to me. today is my birthday,he never wish anything. but he know that,today is my birthday..because i see in his phone reminder. His mum, sister alll acll me and wish. Then i ask him tat, do u forget?he said ” how can forget”,i want wait to give u something special.Should i believe him?Yesterday,he take me to restaurant and while i eat,he read my sms in phone telling that,dont disturb me.This is actually for one of my fren who keep on msg me on night.His face turn to red and ask me “why never tell me?”I said, u are tell that dont tell everything and waste the time..so i noneed to tell with you..he argue with me very badly..and suddenly that time, a girl passed by the way..he keep on looking and smile at tat girl. Im really angry,and tell that,its not right looking like that at others.he said,she is young girl(around17-18),and consider sister for him.than argue wit me badly. Now totally i dont like him.I know,he is not that type of guy..but suddenly he behave like that.if i talk anything,he will keep on doing anything and never talk or reply. But everyday will come to meet me. He said everytime he come to me because of love even though we fight like tat. Today, my birthday,i dont want argue wit him..but he tell me that,he will come and pick up me in my office for lunch.But after i wait 20min,i call him, he tell tat,”we meet on evening” now got 2 hours only.so,we cant spend time. its ok,but why not if he call me and let me know about this early?my fren all going lunch ready..now i have no food here.he never think about this all. That day also same, He promised me to go dinner,then…after 2 hour when i call he said that he forgot and back to house ready.i tolerate. Then,everynight we will talk b4 sleep. He never call me at first time. When morning i ask tat,he argue very badly with me..What should i do? I really dont like him.I dont want let my family suffer with my problem.i cant stop my eng because this is second time engagement.But i really hate him.
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all my college friends (teachers, policemen, nurses) got jobs but the ones that did work in the private sector end up working as restaurant asst managers………is this the status quo nowadays

This has nothing to do with the actual restaurant. But today, I was sitting at a booth, and the people that I was facing were sitting on the SAME SIDE of the booth, which I HATE. And it was a FAT ASS GIRL. and an OLD ASS GUY. And she was blowing in his ear.. I lost my appetite://///
Seriously? Grow up. I’m sorry I don’t want to see a bunch of hicks blowing in each others ear while I’m trying to digest my food.
And i had to face them because I was sitting in the middle of the booth, and there were two people sitting on the sides on the other side of my booth.
Oh, come on. If they were young and good looking I would have been just as mad at them.

OK, so I’m 16 and I asked my 15 year old neighbor (that I actually hardly know despite the fact we’re next door) on a date. She said yes and I took to a spaghetti restaurant and we both ordered spaghetti, lol obviously. She started talking loudly and pointing at people and she even flirted with the waitor. she batted her eyelashes and asked him what he recommended for her. She winked at him, too…she laughed like a crazy person and took out her makeup from her purse and started putting on eyeliner. She “spilled” her coke on me on “accident.” And when the spaghetti came she didn’t use her fork, she reached right in with her hands and stuffed her face, it was really gross and I was completely shocked and mortified. Afterwards she cleaned her hand and face on a napkin and started doing her makeup again. She was acting like she was two years old and I am wondering if she wants me to hate her so she won’t have to date me again. The truth is, I still like her despite her bad manners. I kinda found it sexy but who knows, I think she hates me and that’s why she did it! What do you guys think?

I have been dating this girl off and on for 2 years. We were going out 3 times a week, then I moved for 4 months. When I came back we started going out once a week.

She said she IS physically attracted to me , but we have only kissed 2 times. Everytime I mention getting physical (sex) she ignores me, or changes subject.

I rented a beachside condo and we slept in same bed. When I tried to make a move she played dumb…then when I asked her if she wanted to so”it” she said its gonna be a while before that happens.(as if 2 years isnt a while.

When we go out she expects me to pay for everything. I recently took her to a nice restaurant and she presumed I was paying, so she ordered soem lobster and some expensive glass of wine. When waiter came back with our drinks after ordering I asked him for seperate checks…..her face looked fearful. You could see it in her face her basically saying ” If I knew I was paying I would have ordered a cheap appetizer or said I wasnt hungry”

I am not all about sex , but I have needs as a human, so does she, so is she out getting boned somewhere else and just using me to treat herself to nice things.

I know she has had sex before (several times) so why is she flaking out with me of all people? I am a nice guy, I am able to take her nice places, I am decent looking. Common sense would say “this is the guy your supposed to have sex with”
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On my boyfriend’s birthday. He called me and asked if I wanted to go eat dinner with him .I didn’t want to, Lied and said I was sick. He was okay with it.
Later that day this other guy who has a crush on me called me asking if I wanted to go eat dinner with him, I said yeah and went with him.
We were sitting at the restaurant having a good time and he hugged me.
My boyfriend and his friends walked in the same restaurant.
He was smiling until he saw me. His face turned serious. He looked down, turned around and left.
I felt humiliated everyone was starring at me.
He called me but I ignored his call and he left me a voice message saying “You have to lie just to avoid me ? Why pick this day to hurt me ? I don’t know about you anymore ”

I haven’t seen him in a while, only his friends. But they don’t want to talk to me either.
They just say that I’m f*** Stupid for doing that.

Does it seem that bad ?
Should I apologize to him ? Or be mad at him ?

I am dating this guy,he is 25, we ve already been to three dates so far, the first date, he paid for a coffee( wt a student discount card) but the second and third date, we shared the cost of dinner into half which he didnt object at all. He doesnt make an effort to impress or anything, he even started comparing the prices of two restaurants before we ate. And when we were eating, he tried to drink coke straight from the botlle, which i stopped ofcourse, his food was all over his teeth and he blew his nose on the napking. When he saw me making my face, he even asked me if i was ashamed of him. But that didnt stop him from spitting on the street immediately after i said that i was disgusted wt people spitting on the street.And when i went to his place, his room was messy and was smelling sthing, he even admitted that it must be the fish in the trashcan..gross..Well, he asked me if i could stay over at his place but i made excused and had to run, he ended up giving me a ride which was one hr from his city. Other than that, he is nice(even when im mean to him), hes also well eductaed and welltravlled around the world and has nice biceps..What would you have done? Should i give him another chance?

My son (twenty two) and his younger sister (fourteen) were at a restaurant having dinner together. My son said he got up and walked over to the bar to get a beer an when he returned an older Guy in his thirties was sitting next to his baby sister with his arm around her (he was intoxicated) and he would not get up or let go of his sister. My son grabbed him and shoved him to the floor an warned him she was 14 an not to touch her. He got up and got into my sons face and started yelling explitives at my son and my daughter. My son assaulted him and ultimately broke his eye socket. My son was NOT intoxicated in fact he had not even took a drink of his beer. He was just being over protective of hos sister because he was basically trying to sexually assault my daughter and in my opinion he protected his sister and I’m not proud of him but I’m also not angry. The police did not arrest him……is he likely to face charges in the future.

So a girl on facebook asked me to go out on a “date” with her and her friend to a restaurant. Ik its not really a date considering one of the girls has a B/F and the other one barley knows me. I really want to go as friends though. However, I don’t want to sound desperate nor do I want to face the reality that they really were joking and have no interest in going out. So what could I say that would convince them to ask me without looking foolish if they were joking? Im 16 btw.