Open Question: HOW TO DEAL WIT THIS RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM!? (LONG STORY) PLEASE READ!????????
Wednesday, September 14th, 2011(Please excuse grammar errors)
I found out my girlfriend was emotionally cheating with someone else, and she begged me for another chance and I gave it to her. So I waited a few days to see if she would offer me her password for her to prove to me that she is serious about making our relationship work by letting me know she has nothing else to hide on Facebook.
I told her if it would have been the other way around and if I would have emotionally cheated on her on Facebook I would have automatically offered her my password if given another chance to let her know I have nothing to hide. Well tonight I brought that up about the password thing to her and she had a serious atttiude and she was like “no why you need my password?” I then told her seem to me you have something to hide and she got mad and said just forget it and she hung up the phone and I told her she has something to hide and I asked her password when she was at dinner with her friends and she said she forgot it, and when she got home she claimed she changed it to something she remember, but honestly it is hard for me to believe.
I think she is still trying to cheat on Facebook and I deleted all my social media profiles after being in a relationship out of respect and she still wants to hang on to Facebook the place I caught her cheating the first time and she even admitted she cheated on Facebook and then tonight in front of her friends at her house she tried to embarrass me over the phone and yell at me and try to make herself appear innocent and she said she did not cheat, she said “you act like I cheated on you”, I then told her how could you lie? I then said to her, yeah I see in front of your friends you try to lie and say you did not cheat, but I told her do you remember that email you sent me admitting you cheated, then she got quiet, because she know it is the truth. I feel like a fool even considering taking back someone that cheated on me, shame on me, but I thought she was going to change her attitude, but she is still so nonchalant about everything. I realize that is why she talks to me in a disrespectful way in front of her friends and by herself and she has no respect and that is not love, and I guess she felt like since I was considering taking her back I guess she felt like she can treat me any type of way and I cannot put up with it.
I let her know she is trying to put on a show in front of her friends as if she is innocent and as of tonight having the nerve to say she feels like I do not need her Facebook password after she emotionally cheated on there, which is still cheating, and I told her if I would have been in her situation I would have offered my girlfriend my password to let her know I have nothing to hide, but she obviously has something to still hide, and I told her yeah you going to give me your password after you delete messages you do not want me to find, and she gets mad and changes her password like last time, she plays games and she has something to hide still. Last time I caught her I asked her for her password and caught her off guard, this time I messed up I asked her when she was at the restaurant with her friends, and she claimed she made a new password she did not know, and she told me she wrote it down somewhere at her house, and when she got home she gave me trouble as if she did not want me to have it which is very strange, and she always try to turn stuff around on me without looking at herself, and she is very immature for her age, and I am a younger adult but more mature than her, she just lies and plays games.
I told her do not try to call me when your friends are not around and beg me to take you back again. I was fool to even consider taking her back again, and she tried to insult me tonight in front of her friends trying to make it as if I am the bad one when it is really her and I told her if she goes to bed tonight without trying to solve things, because I hate going to bed mad at someone and I feel like if we cannot solve things before going to bed tonight then forget about.
I also did tell her after she cheated she does not deserve me anyway and I feel she is still trying to hide stuff on Facebook and she may still be cheating since she is on guard with her password and she acts like she don’t want me to have it, and tonight she did say it but she said it so fast I could not hear her so I told her do not worry about it. I told her she obviously has something to hide for her to make that comment when she said I do not need her facebook password she said I should just believe whatever she says.
I think she is still playing games or cheating, something is not right and it upset me even more she tried to make the emotional cheating as if it was nothing I told her it may not be physical cheating but it is still cheating and it is wrong and immature. Do you all agree that she still have something to hide with the Facebook thing, and what do you all think