ah,
i’m pretty sure im bisexual, 17 years old.
allthough i have only admitted this to a hand full of people, because if my parents found out, they would destroy me.
i find both men and women equally beautiful.

lot’s of really gorgeous guys have asked me out, and w,e..
im pretty shy though, so all my relationships have been fairly innocent.
for a while there, i thought i was straight, i stopped checking people out, and caring about love..

plus, im the type of person that acts real chill and collected in public, i like being the simple observer, analyzing everything.

i was at a family party last week, and this girl came out on stage, as part of a performance in the restaurant.
she was so incredibly beautiful,
its been a week, and i cant get her out of my mind, i dont know her name or anything, i was too afraid to approach her in front of my family members..

she has long dark curly hair, pale skin, perfect curves, beautiful facial features.
i cant stop thinking about this chick,
what do i do ?
i want her to just leave my mind..

:/
i have never actually had a relationship with a girl before though,
i kissed a few very passionately..

i’ve only truly had one long relationship with a guy.. (7 months)..

i’m so picky, i have never actually fallen for someone from the first sight of them.

idk what to do.

ok, in which social or economic class can this lifestyle be classified as?

ok, lets say a woman (as we all have to admit that, although there are many men who spent a lot, women are famous for being great spenders)

so, a woman has…

a small or medium apartment, but that looks extremely elegant and well decorated on the inside, with beautiful mobiles in this minimalist way, a beautiful and fashionable car.

these things the person pays in installments.

but she pays her bills right every month…

and still there always rests a lot of money (like more than $2000 so she can spend in fun), so she can spend and pay CASH a lot of the prettiest designer clothes, shoes, jewelry and makeup, all designer…

and also spend around 100 or 200 dollars going, every weekend, to the best and most elegant restaurant and places in city,

of course, always looking great with the best hair, makeup and designer outfits.

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so, in which social or economic class this lifestyle may be classified as?
no, she does NOT pay CASH for everything. ONLY for her designer shoes, designer clothes, brandname makeup and hair care - and out eating every weekend at chic restaurant and places.

but her house, car and mobile she pays in installments, of course.

i’m just trying to confirm if she is high class or high-medium-class. and what ppl would think of having this kind of lifestyle.
well, its HER money, right?
would you go up to her and forbid her from spending the way she wants the money SHE WORKS for?

Ok im 20 years old, and every thursday nights me and my family go to a restaurant to watch a car show. Their is a hostess their that I think is very beautiful. Shes very nice and always takes good care of us. The problem is that I cant talk to her because she is always really busy and her boss is always around. So on thursday night, while I was eating with my family, my dad was was a little tipsy started telling me that I should talk to the her. He started being loud and called her over and told her that I thought she was pretty. She laughed and walked away. 20 minutes later when she was not as busy, I walked up to her and apologized how dumb my dad acted. She smiled and told me not to worry. I asked her if I could give her something and she said yes. I gave her a note stating that I thought she was very pretty and that I didn’t wanna talk to her and get her in trouble, with my number at the bottom. She smiled and told me thank you. I thought things were awesome at the time. Now its been a whole night and a full day and she still has not called or text-ed me. Do you think she is just not interested in me? Did I mess up in a way? Should I go back or something? I really think she is very beautiful and seems like a very joyful person and really want to get to know her. I don’t know what to do. She always smiled at me since the first day we got there so I thought she was sort of into me. Someone please help. Thank you.

This question is for all very traditional Japanese girls. I am an American, living in Japan. I’m a type of person that once I find something I like, its all I want. I found a restaurant that makes the best food. Not too bad of a price, really beautiful and the workers are all really nice. Some of them speak English, and since I struggle with Japanese, I usually just talk to them. From my 1st trip to the restaurant, I started to talk to an employee there. The one hat spoke the most english. She and I would joke and laugh and really talk a lot. I would sit at the bar, so even when she is cooking, she can still talk to me.
Now, I “know” American girls. When I do something, or when they say something, I know what it means. The same goes for Latin girls. I learned Spanish much quicker and it seems I learned the meaning of things from the people too.
So this girl and I went out a few times. I know of other really good restaurants that I wanted to take her to. She had me over for ice cream on 1 occasion where I brought ice cream, a notepad and pen and she helped me with Japanese. Never once was there s time when she leaned in for a kiss or she had a conversation with me about liking me, and I’m good at noticing they kind of stuff. So, I met a girl (this is all starting 6 months ago, btw). I had to go visit this girls family and I guess her parents are very strict. So I got her dad American beer, but didn’t know what to get for her mom. So I asked my friend, at her work. The result is I ate my meal alone. I confronted my friend about it a week later and she said she didn’t feel well. That’s fine so everything is all good right? No. She’s totally taken a step back. She barely even says hello to me now. My final straw is, the other day her car broke down. I saw her. She was totally lost in what to do. Now, she knows that I do all the maintains on my car. I baby my car and make sure it’s always running well. I have done a few tasteful modifications that all turned out very well. But when I offered to look at it, she said there was no need and her mechanic friend was coming.
If this girl had feelings for me, all she had to do is say something. Honestly, my girlfriend doesn’t treat me very good and it wouldn’t take much for me to see the light with someone who, in my eyes, is an overall good person.

So what do I do? Comfront her? I’ll do anything to talk to her again. She was a great friend.

Im short but muscular. i work 2 jobs. I don’t even need the second one but i keep it so i can spoil you. i will take you to fancy restaurants and buy you jewelry from tiffany’s and other gifts just because. I will tell you how beautiful you are. i will take you to sporting events and on nice vacations. if im doing really well for myself i might even buy you a car or a motorcycle. when im not working i love to party. patron is my drink of choice. Also i expect you to work or at least cook and clean. I dont mind supporting you but dont be lazy. Im nice but im not a pushover. Just make sure i get laid once in awhile and ill keep you around. also i dont cheat so if you do it once you’re gone. So girls would you date a guy like me?

i was hunting by panoche.a small community in southern san benito county near I-5.nothing but the beautiful outdoors for miles. no store for 30 miles in any direction but a little bar/restaurant. i was way out in the mountains when i ran into a weirdo. an oakie? the told me. like a paegan. inbreeds i heard. a whole villlage of 40 some said. i dont know anything. i want to go find thoze people. he stole my shot. i had just takne out a wild boar and he ran up and drag it away by the time i got there.

So before you go all like “huh?” I’d like to specify that this question is for everyone who’s had a job or those who have the knowledge about jobs, also to those who are managers especially. Here is what’s going on. I am a 16 year old guy with wavy-straight shoulder-length hair. My hair is in good condition. YES I am very girly when it comes to my hair and appearence. I brush my hair every day with a bristle brush, I keep it soft and smooth, well hydrated, and try to hide or get rid of the frizz as much as possible. I have bangs and my hair is redish. Yes I’ve dyed it. So pretty much as overall, I categorize my hair as beautiful though I want it to be much longer but with the same style. I dress… preppy per say and try my best to look neat and simply normal.

The problem is, as I spoke to my dad about getting a job, he told me something that up to this point is very confusing and it’s angering me in an annoying way. What makes it confusing is that I know he doesn’t like my hair and simply wants me to cut it so badly to the point he even says that if I care about the family I would do it. So this thing he told me before and after I applied at a restaurant that hasn’t considered me as an option yet, I’ve called twice by the way, was that they wont hire me because I have long hair. Now, I do understand that jobs do require or expect to see a person being… not shaggy and messy per say. That’s why I specify above, that I dress as neatly as I can especially with my hair.

My question is, is what he said true?

Note that it’s not like I’m applying for an office kind of employment or a major company for manager. I simply want to apply at a mexican restaurant that pretty much, as far as I’ve seen, has hired people regardless of the way they dressed or looked like. I don’t mind having to tie my hair up in a ponytail, as a matter of fact I do that on my own time.

So again, is this true? Am I not being hired because of my hair? I really love my hair and unless it’s a matter of life and death or extreme necessity, I wont cut it. Especially to satisfy the, honestly speaking, sickening needs of a parent who doesn’t accept his child as he is. So overall, I would be satisfied to know if this is true or not. Does long clean presentable hair affect a high school age level job? Or a higher level by the way? When I wrote that I called the place twice after leaving my application, I was told that there were no openings for the moment, I even know the manager and spoke to her in person, we actually get along and joke around. I have friends who work at that place and I haven’t heard that someone else has gotten hired. So I’m just askin if this is true or not?

Also one more thing I forgot to mention. I also had long nails. Not Cirque Du Soleil long or Ripley’s Believe it or Not long. Just half inch nails that I took care of so much and that everyone, even guys, would praise me and say “wow i wish my nails were that long.” Yes mostly girls said that, but that was another thing my dad hated the most and so did my brothers. He said that my nails were another reason of why I wasn’t getting hired. Nail description: other than the length, my nails were always clean. I would use a nail filler to keep them in good shape, and I kept them always neat and shiny. However, I chopped them off eventually because they were breaking and had damaged spots than needed to be taken care off which eventually led to keep them trimmed just to stop the complaints of my family members who would insult me and pretty much tell me I was an embarrassment to them, except my mom. I now have like less than quarter of an inch nails and are very strong by the way. VERY STRONG. So another quick question is was he right about my non hobo-like beautiful nails too? Could that been another reason of not getting the job? Though people could barely see them unless they would see my hands directly.

So overall, these are my questions. I appreciate respectful comments please.

And to all the mean comments; “sissy, faggot,” etc. I will report them and mark them as span. If you hate guys with long hair or girly features, than don’t bother to write me an answer. If you’re going to give me a judging honest opinion of what you believe the answer is weather it’s on my side or not then you’re more than welcome to answer. That’s what this whole point is about no? lol. I don’t care if I’m right or wrong in this case, I just need to know in a harmless nonviolent way.

Thank you all for reading.

Me and my boyfriend of 2 years are going on a date out to dinner at this big fancy restaurant, and its gonna be at night, and i want to know EXTREMELY BAD how to get those big, soft, bouncy romantic looking curls!!?? i have long blonde hair that comes down just about 4 inches below my boobs, and i don’t care if i have to use a curling iron, or hot rollers, or rollers that you sleep in, but please tell in detail how i can achieve this look!!!!!???? and thankyou SO much to any answers given!!! (:

I’m going to celebrate my seventeen birthday dinner with my closest friends, I don’t want it to be big, maybe like 20 people or so. I still have couple months, but I need to find out where’s the best restaurant in Jakarta, because I’m studying overseas now, and I only have few more days to be fully prepared with the dinner, for I’ll be arrived back in Indonesia only days before my birthday. So, do you guys know if there are any good restaurants, or maybe hotel restaurant in Jakarta? The one with a really great food, or even better, landscape. Jakarta at night is truly beautiful Thanks for the help

I am wondering if I will be able to find an affordable apartment in the South End.
I am planning to move out of my parents house in a few months…I will be making at least $12 an hour and working normal, 8 hours a day, 5 days a week.

I am looking for a one bedroom apartment…I hate studios. I want to move to the South End mostly because I am gay and it’s a really gay neighborhood. I want to meet a lot of gay men, even the gym in the South End is a gay majority gym. Next to that, everything else there is great..it’s beautiful, nice restaurants, lots of places to shop for anything I need….